Eight Interesting Qualities That Make You Attractive
Do you want to stand out and be noticed? Take a look at some of the qualities that can make you attractive to the world.
Do you consider yourself to be an attractive person? Does the crowd gather around you, giving you attention wherever you go, and people photobomb you left and right while you are trying to take that perfect selfie?
On the other hand, have you ever felt intensely attracted towards someone and felt utterly confused as to what pulled you towards that person?
Let’s face it, we all want to be popular and attractive. We humans have an intrinsic want to be noticed and appreciated. We go to great lengths buying expensive clothes and makeup to be the belle of the ball.
Sometimes, even when we put our best foot forward, we find ourselves alone, wondering what keeps us from having attention come our way?
Although craving attention all the time is not a healthy way to live, sometimes a little attention from the right people can do wonders to your self-esteem.
Before you claim to be the person who draws the crowd or is a magnet for people, you need to define an attractive person.
Who is an Attractive Person?
An attractive person is someone who has that certain spark or magnetism that draws people’s attention to them. They are not necessarily the most beautiful but possess certain qualities that make them unique from others.
What are the perks of being attractive?
It makes you feel confident.
Nothing increases our self-esteem and confidence than being sought after by many. A person with a high degree of charisma draws in the crowd wherever they go. Being alluring and in demand can make you feel more confident and surer of yourself.
It helps you get more friends and followers.
Attractive people often come across diverse groups, and it is easier for them to develop lasting friendships and a long list of followers. Although they can sometimes attract unwanted attention, they can usually pick and choose the people they want in their lives and develop enriching friendships.
According to statistics, attractive people are most likely to get better jobs and considered more trustworthy. They are likely to make more money and seem healthier and happier than most people.
So, what is the x-factor that makes people stand out in a crowd?
Here are the eight qualities that can make you attractive and help you get noticed.
1) The way you look
It is a no-brainer. People with proportionate features and who are traditionally beautiful are considered attractive. First impressions do matter, and when we see a beautiful or handsome person, their physical characteristics draw people close to them. But as we know,” beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,” and a person who is considered beautiful in one part of the world can come across as pretty ordinary in another time and place.
So, if you are genetically gifted to be naturally beautiful, it might get you a point or two, but for the rest of us, there are other significant factors that can help us ace the attractive quotient;
2)The beauty of your soul
“The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she knows.” ― Audrey Hepburn
Inner beauty is something that cannot be seen but perceived. It gives a person character. The calmness of mind, the honesty in her eyes, the kindness in her soul, and her heart’s charms all constitute to make a woman internally beautiful. The greatest thing about inner beauty is that the passage of time doesn’t dim its light, and it glows forever, providing comfort and solace to people who come in contact with them.
Some people have it from birth, but you can develop your inner beauty by bringing kindness and compassion to those around you.
A person possessing inner beauty will draw people like moths to the flame. They will be blessed with friendships that will last till the end of time.
3)Your personality and character-
The attribute that will make you unique from others is your personality and character. It is what makes you unique and exciting. An attractive person does not try to be like someone else. They are unapologetically themselves under all circumstances. No one likes a fake person. To be authentic and true to oneself is the greatest compliment you can give to anyone. Whether you are an extrovert or an introvert, practice being yourself, and you will find people wanting to know you for who you are.
Our personality has different shades. It is defined by your interests, hobbies, your view of the world, the goals and ambitions that define you, the dreams and ideas that keep you up at night. Explore them and find out who you are. Then present yourself in all its glory to the world.
4)Your smile-
Your smile is a special category by itself.
A smile is the best makeup any girl can wear.”– Marilyn Monroe
A genuine smile can light up your eyes and spread warmth amidst the gloom. It can make an ordinary day special and inspire people around you. Never underestimate the power of a heartwarming smile. It can make any face look attractive and draw people around like a magnet. If you want something readily available to make you beautiful, wear a bright smile.
5)Your ability to listen
“Sometimes all a person wants is an empathetic ear; all he or she needs is to talk it out. Just offering a listening ear and an understanding heart for his or her suffering can be a big comfort.” ― Roy T. Bennett
If you want to get the attention of a person, listen to him. A good listener is a medicine to the soul. All of the world's problems would disappear if only people took time to listen attentively to others. It is a therapy that you can provide to distressed souls. Listening actively and attentively will make you look compassionate and an attractive person.
6)Your sense of humor-
“Humor can make a big difference. In the workplace, at home, in all areas of life — looking for a reason to laugh is necessary. A sense of humor helps us to get through the dull times, cope with the difficult times, enjoy the good times and manage the scary times.” ― Steve Goodier
People get instantly attracted to a sense of humor in others. An ability to laugh at situations when others are complaining can be an attractive trait. What makes it even unique is that it helps us take things in perspective by not being too serious about life.
To be unique, develop a healthy dose of acceptance of the life situations that can brighten up your sense of humor. See the bright side of things, have the confidence to laugh at your flaws, make others feel comfortable and included, and you will be sought after on every occasion.
7)Your relaxed attitude
So, do you go about your days with a permanently stressed look as if you carry the world on your shoulders? Nothing puts off people like a person with a frown stuck on their face. Develop a relaxed and chill attitude to get attention. An open posture with a comfortable demeanor will let people know that you are easy to be around.
When the world is burdened with stress and discontent, light up your surroundings by being relaxed and calm, and you would always find some good company to ease your way through life.
8) Your unique outlook towards life-
Have you ever met someone who has a totally different outlook on life and you felt the need to change or at least modify your beliefs as a result? A sparkling conversation with someone can change your thoughts and open your horizon about the things you believe in. We all like to grow our perceptions and the people who make us think differently always get our attention.
“There are things known, and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” ― Aldous Huxley
To be attractive, you need to veer away from the time-tested ideas and develop some unique visions of your own. Take time to explore how you look at things and what you believe about the events around you. Read and keep in touch with the ever-changing outside world to develop your unique perspective on things.
An attractive person can rule the world, but she does not do it from superficial physical beauty but from being her true authentic self. You can cultivate those traits that can make you stand out in the crowd and be valued.
So be yourself, own your space, bring out your most dazzling smile, let others get a glimpse of your brilliance, and see how the world responds to the new attractive you!