Easy, But Not Lazy — How I Incorporate a Yoga Teacher’s Mantra in My Life
I went to a Yoga class once, and the teacher was guiding us on how deep and for how long to hold our poses.
He said: “It should feel easy, but not lazy.”
He meant that we should reach the point in a pose where it feels slightly challenging but manageable. We should notice a subtle ache, but not to the point of snapping our hamstrings. Easy, but not lazy.
I know it seems simple, but this idea was revolutionary for me, and I apply it to many things I want to achieve. However, it runs counter to the way our culture (especially in the U.S.) often operates.
All the self-improvement “experts” promote the grind, the hustle. If you don’t wake up at 4:00 a.m. and immediately dunk your head in a bucket of ice water while meditating, journaling, and running 10 miles, apparently, you’re doing everything wrong.
But I’m not one for the grind. I prefer the gentler “easy, but not lazy” approach. Here’s how I’ve applied it to things in my life and how I think it can be applied to other things:
Recently, I wanted to lose weight. In the past, I’ve gone overboard with how I approach this. I usually restrict my calories to 500 a day below what I typically eat and then do high-intensity exercise 6 days a week. Sometimes, it works; other times, I burn out quickly because I get hungry and don’t feel like working out that hard.
Lately, I’ve been trying a different approach. I restrict my calories by 200–300 daily and walk instead of working out hard. I get 10,000 steps a day. This plan is easy but not lazy for me — and so far, it’s working — I have lost weight. I feel less ravenous and enjoy walking, so it’s easy to stick to. Also, because it’s easy for me, I exercise more and longer than I did with my old hard workouts. It’s not lazy, though — which is key — walking for extended periods is still a slight challenge, but not difficult.
Similarly, my husband participates in local bike races and is one of the faster riders around town. He rides a lot, but most of his rides are low-intensity. This way, he feels rested when he does need to ride fast. In other words, he goes slower to (eventually) go faster. Many runners train this way as well — using an 80/20 method where 80% of the time, they run easy and 20% hard. Over time, they make more progress than someone who always does hard or moderately hard runs.
This concept is also similar to the “switchback approach.” In hiking, a switchback is a trail that cuts sharply (180 degrees) from one direction to another (like a zig-zag) up a steep hill. Instead of climbing from the bottom of a mountain straight to the top, switchbacks allow for a gentler climb through less steep slopes. The climb may not be the most straightforward way to ascend a mountain, but it is much more achievable and rewarding.
The switchback approach is another easy but not lazy approach. It reminds us we don’t need to be balls to the wall whenever we have a goal to achieve. Sometimes, it’s more sustainable to do things softly.
The next time you have a goal, consider how you can scale back and do it more peacefully. Though it might take longer, it will likely be a much more enjoyable experience. Easy, but not lazy.