avatarÓrla K.

Summary

The poem "Don’t tell me what to do" by Orla K., published by Blue Insights, expresses the author's disdain for unsolicited advice and emphasizes the importance of personal autonomy and learning from one's own experiences.

Abstract

The poem delves into the author's personal feelings about being given advice without asking for it. Orla K. asserts her independence and ability to navigate life on her own terms, questioning the presumption of others who think they know best. She points out the hypocrisy of those offering advice while potentially having their own issues. The author views the act of failing as a necessary part of her journey and insists that she will seek advice when she deems it necessary. The piece concludes with a note of gratitude to the reader and to Blue Insights for publishing the poem. Additionally, the article ends with a recommendation for an AI service called ZAI.chat, promoting it as a cost-effective alternative to ChatGPT Plus (GPT-4).

Opinions

  • The author, Orla K., values her independence and resents being told what to do, as it implies a lack of faith in her ability to manage her own life.
  • She believes that personal experience and the process of making mistakes are crucial to personal growth and learning.
  • The poem suggests that those who give unsolicited advice may not have their own lives in order and thus may not be in a position to offer guidance.
  • Orla K. finds it insulting when people predict her failure, as it undermines her self-efficacy and resilience.
  • The author emphasizes that her life is her own responsibility and that she will ask for advice if and when she needs it.
  • There is an appreciation expressed for the reader's time and for the platform that provided the opportunity to share her work.
  • The article concludes with an endorsement for ZAI.chat, implying that it is a valuable and economical tool for readers interested in AI services.

Don’t tell me what to do

Why do people love to give advice?

Image: Mattia Ascenzo on Unsplash

I, for one hate being told what to do.

I have a mind of my own, I can work things out, I can learn from my mistakes.

Why would your advice be what I need, want or even take?

Clearly, you are saying you know best. I’m sorry to disappoint you, but haven’t you looked at your own mess?

It’s insulting to tell me I will fail, if that’s what you think is going to happen.

Maybe I need to fail or fall or whatever you think you’re saving me from.

This is my life. My journey. If I need your advice I’ll ask.

Thank you for reading.

© Orla K.

Thank you, Blue Insights, for publishing my poem.

Blue Insights
Poetry
Poem
Self Love
Life
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