Summary

The article critiques the mindset promoted by Kevin Samuels regarding "High Value Men" and infidelity, advocating instead for integrity, honesty, and strong familial relationships.

Abstract

The author expresses disapproval of Kevin Samuels' assertion that all high-value men cheat, questioning the value system that equates financial success with the moral fortitude required for loyalty in relationships. The piece argues that men should focus on personal growth, responsible fatherhood, and genuine connections rather than succumbing to societal pressures that encourage betrayal and objectification of women. It suggests that healing from past traumas and fostering positive, respectful relationships is more valuable than seeking validation through wealth or multiple partners. The article calls for a redefinition of what constitutes a high-value man, emphasizing the importance of being a good man who contributes positively to society and his immediate community.

Opinions

The author views Kevin Samuels' teachings as toxic and harmful to both men and women, perpetuating a cycle of betrayal and abuse.
There is a strong opinion that men should prioritize personal integrity and honesty over the pursuit of wealth and multiple sexual partners.
The piece reflects on the self-esteem issues and self-hatred that may drive some men to seek validation from figures like Kevin Samuels.
It is suggested that men who follow such advice are likely compensating for their inability to form deep emotional connections and fear of being unloved.
The author emphasizes the importance of men taking responsibility for their actions, including being present and supportive fathers.
There is a call for men to engage in self-reflection and to seek understanding and forgiveness as a path to healing personal and collective pain.
The article advocates for a shift in cultural norms, encouraging men to build healthy relationships with women rather than viewing them as objects to be won or betrayed.
It is implied that true high-value men are those who work towards positive change in the world and attract like-minded individuals, including women who value integrity and mutual respect.

Don’t Take Your Self Hate Out on Me.

I know it’s old news, but I just happened on a video of Kevin Samuels on Vlad TV talking about how all High Value Men cheat (or have “options” as he put it).

What’s even more gross than KS is the men in the comments section cheerfully agreeing with his foolishness.

Women have options too, don’t forget that fellas. Divorce, Alimony, letting him do what he wants and get you a piece of something on the side, there are many options for us too. But the anti-women have been working hard to convince us that we have no choice but to put up with their betrayal.

And yeah, that’s exactly what this shit is. BETRAYAL. These men fantasize about how they will betray wives and girlfriends they don’t even have yet. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Rather than focusing on how to be BETTER men, learning how to cultivate honesty, integrity, and be better fathers. So if and when they get a woman pregnant, they don’t have to act so blind sighted that they run away or act like the responsibility completely overwhelms them.

C’mon men! We’ve already had at least 2 generations of this mess. So y'all will keep with the “oh, I had to leave because the responsibility of fatherhood overwhelmed me” BS, but you agree to betraying your family that doesn’t even exist yet?

Did it ever occur to you to watch some parenting and child care videos instead of watching Kevin Samuels and these other F**k Boy coaches?

Then I realize it’s their own low self-esteem that does this to them. Even though they project the opposite image, they act over confident, over inflated, overly sure of themselves. The truth is the opposite.

They know they are failing women and humanity as a whole. Their children starve, die, and get shot out in the streets in mass. Their young men are in prisons, and their women are disrespected and abused the world over. But they will listening to a Kevin Samuels gas their egos up, telling them they are a “High Value Man”.

All they need is MONEY. Money will make the bad, bad history vanish! Money will make the women forget the betrayal. The children and young men forget the betrayal. All you need is money, and they will love you despite your inability to love them.

These men are hateful and abusive to women, because they feel like no woman can ever love them.

They will be in relationships with women, sometimes for years, and never allow her to get close enough to know him. He will cheat, he will hang out with his friends, he will do everything he can to keep the bond between them sexual, but not let her tap into that deeper part of him.

Because he knows if she see’s it she will flee.

If you’ve filled your mind with vile pornography, violence, insulting other people, hating other people, hating women, ignoring your community, you will hate yourself. How can you not? Then you need men like Kevin Samuels to make you feel better.

So, in the spirit of being Christ like, and I ask this spirit of the Father God to teach me and instruct me. Because I’m starting to understand that understanding and forgiving is the only way I can heal my own pain.

But my trying to understand does not give these men the green light for further evil and abuse.

No, the only way women can heal from the pain these men inflict is to stay far away from them for a while. Because how can women heal from betrayal when they are anxiously learning how to betray us more?

After all the betrayal these men have done, the best and noblest thing they can do now is give us a break for a while.

Don’t come unless we call you.

But I know you won't, because you’re terrified that call might never come…

I am so tired of this sussy bastard…

Why is he even talking on relationships? He-Ain’t-Got-No-WOMAN! Where is this dudes wife that he feels like he’s capable of giving any one relationship or marriage advice?

“All High Value Men Cheat”, then they ain’t high value, PERIOD. Because a High Value Man would be loyal to his woman and family. He also wouldn’t want to stretch his money too thin with a woman over here and a woman over there. He’d be too busy working on other more important things, like building his legacy, and strengthening his relationships and finances.

A High Value Man would also have confidence. He knows he’s working hard to make positive changes in the world, society, or at least, his immediate community or family. And since that’s the kind of person he is, he expects to attract people with the same mindset, including women.

Because that’s how God built things. Positive people will attract Positive People. Healing people (like me) will attract other healing or healed people to help me along the way.

So to the men, instead of listening to F**k Boy coaches like Kevin Samuels, why not try understanding what it means to be a man? Or better yet, a good man.

A good man would be trying to build bridges between humans. Instead of trying to figure out how to abuse women and get away with it, maybe he’d be more focused on how to make peace with them and have better relationships with them, instead of how to screw them over and mistreat them.

Sounds like a better option to me!

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