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line, cinema. 4 t.r. best case scenario. More flowers — 5 t.r. Once a month — a surprise. In short, the parties turned out to be 30–40 thousand. What’s the joke? Can’t eat at home? No really? Drink coffee for 250–300 rubles a glass? What’s this? What is this for?Yes, I make money, but I know the value of money. This doesn’t mean that I have to buy all sorts of crap, even unnecessary stuff. If a girl can cook for me at home and watch a movie on the big screen at home. In warmth, comfort, care, than listening to the chomping of popcorn. And then they write: he earns money, but he can’t buy a meal for 500 rubles. RAVE! If only everything was limited to 500 rubles. It seems so, 500 here, 100 there, 2000 there, and then you wonder where the money went.Here is another honest cry from the heart, characteristic, I think, of some men:I’m a real miser, about whom they write later in such topics. I understand how disgusting this is, but I can’t do anything. Paying for someone — but for nothing, it just makes me feel bad on a physical level (something like a panic attack, and then the feeling that I was deceived).I constantly find myself trying to parasitize friends, girls, etc. (allegedly I forget my wallet when I need to pay, I borrow small amounts — 500–1000 rubles and don’t pay them back, etc.)I tried going to a psychologist, but it didn’t help. The work also takes its toll, when the company pays for all your drinking sessions with clients, you get used to it very quickly. The only hope is to find some completely downtrodden woman from a poor family who has not seen a good life.Women who get hooked and invest in relationships with this kind of men will at some point discover the terrible truth that they were trying to fight against a concrete wall of indifference, coldness, selfishness, infantilism of an adult, seemingly a man, but in reality an indifferent boy, stingy not only with money, but also with love, attention, understanding, care.Such a boy has calculated everything down to the penny, but does not understand how he is robbing himself, and even trying to rob a woman who has not yet figured out what kind of “dried fruit” was next to her.This boy wants unconditional maternal love and acceptance, but is not able to take responsibility for the woman who is next to him.I will give an excerpt from the discussion with a great answer from a woman (I have underlined the thoughts that particularly resonated with me):GuestAnd if you don’t think he should, then there’s no point in reproaching him for pettiness. “Money loves money” — have you heard this expression? Or did you seriously expect that he would just take everything for you and pay for you, even the same 20–30 rubles? Why the fright?GuestAnd why, excuse me, “scared” do these men invite women on dates? Here, of course, the question is more for women, why do they allow all these situations and continue to communicate further… but there is such a thing as pathological greed, this is a serious mental disorder that requires treatment.And in general, the more petty a person is, the less he gets in life. Then they will spend the rest of their lives counting their pennies and walking around in rags, paying mortgages — is such a life pleasant for them? It’s not that you won’t feel like a man; in such conditions it’s difficult to feel like a man. People who are accomplished and personally mature, it doesn’t matter whether they are men or women, have such nonsense about who pays someone 30 rubles for coffee. should, they don’t do it.And a man is, first of all, a support, a person you can rely on financially, including. This is a protector and provider — this is the nature of men. And if for some reason this nature is violated, then first of all the man himself suffers from his insolvency.Don’t pour your “rogue philosophy” into everyone’s ears here, Mr. Anal Man (S. Freud — personality types), g

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et your butt off the couch, unstick your eyes from the computer and go ahead — realize your masculine potential as a conqueror! Weak?)Have you noticed: if a man is greedy in his relationship with his woman, then luck turns away from him? And if a woman is happy and content in a relationship, then she “blesses” her man with good luck and literally “attracts” great opportunities to him.Sometimes a woman at the beginning of a relationship strives to show her chosen one that she does not love him because of money, and behaves more than modestly in terms of desires, “oh, what are you, what are you, I’m not like that, I don’t need anything” — and she is making a mistake. You must be able to accept with pleasure a man’s generosity and desire to pamper you.I would like to give another quote, which may be ambiguous for some:Often a man asks: “You don’t love me because of money, do you?” Correct answer: “And because of the money too!” Of course, it is worth adding that monetary energy is an analogue of sexual energy, part of a man’s personality and his energy, proof that a man is capable in all respects.It happens, of course, that someone is “loved” only because of money, but this is not about love, and not the topic of this article. The line is thin, it’s difficult to draw, but that’s why we are people, we get to know each other, build relationships with those with whom we feel good, reliable and pleasant.I will give more interesting examples of how family life later develops with such a “greedy” man.GuestThat’s how thrifty and thrifty, he won’t go to waste, and his family will always be in good shape! It all starts with saving. The family economy should be economical.GuestAnd here you are wrong, I had the same shot. I also used a calculator to calculate how much toilet paper SHOULD be enough for a family of three :-)Using a calculator I calculated how many underpants should last me for a whole year, and why I don’t sew up torn underpants and socks :-)And the apotheosis of miserliness — he calculated how much electricity I would generate (!!!!!!!!!) while I was sitting on the push :-), and always muttered that I was using a lot of light :-) :-) and, by the way, he came came to me with two pairs of socks, he didn’t have any more. Honestly.Let me give you another opinion:VikaMy husband is also a hoarder. True, he doesn’t drink, doesn’t cheat, loves our children very much, and also earns decently (about 200 rubles). Gives about 50 thousand rubles per family. But he constantly controls expenses. And he often finds fault with my purchases. He collects the rest of the money to buy apartments for his children.He doesn’t like to give me flowers, he thinks it’s stupid. Helps his parents and my money on a monthly basis. He bought the apartment before marriage.Girls, well, you have everything you need for life, no loans. But he constantly counts expenses and always collects. If he goes to the store, he buys only the minimum necessary. We don’t go on vacation either, because we live by the sea, and he thinks it’s stupid. He always says that the sea is the same everywhere. I’m very tired of his curmudgeonly behavior.He promises to allocate more money to the family, but every time this is discussed it leads to a scandal. He has no hobbies and doesn’t spend extra money on a car. I’m trying to get money from him for clothes, he says that 50 thousand rubles is enough. for everything and clothes too, I just spend them incorrectly.I’m a woman, and I need a lot of things, he doesn’t understand why I need lipstick in different shades or several mascaras, he thinks it’s all stupid. I don’t work because I’m still on maternity leave. He tells me: “If you want to live better, go work.” He never claims my money, but he doesn’t want to give me his “extra” money. What should I do?</article></body>

Don’t go, girls, to marry…greedy people!

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Why do we dislike greed so much?

It can be very unpleasant for a girl or a woman to encounter male greed.

Moreover, men sometimes veil it so skillfully, and women are so in love and so afraid of appearing materialistic, that for some time they tolerate obvious signs of greed in the relationship, and only after time does it dawn on them that the man was greedy!

I will give very interesting and typical examples from a forum on the Internet, in a topic about male greed — with statements from both women and men:

They started dating, their income was not big, they seemed to love each other, then things went well for him, he bought himself an expensive car and a bunch of clothes.

He didn’t give me anything, I didn’t ask for anything, everything was enough for me. But somehow I open his closet, and there are clothes that are more fashionable than the girls’, well, I forgot, there was some sediment left, because before that I asked to borrow it IN DEBT!!! 5 thousand rubles — pay at the institute, with a refund, he said: there is no money…

Then a new store opened opposite the house, we went together, he again grabbed some things for himself. I was planning to buy one for myself, I started trying it on, he said: if you want, I’ll buy it, I: of course, yes. I started trying it on, he didn’t like everything, in the end he said that nothing suited me, although the things fit well, and in the end I left without buying anything. Then they broke up a year later. At that time I didn’t think that he was greedy; we didn’t break up because of money.

Some women, of course, understand that they come across greedy men, and they don’t even think about building relationships with them:

One greedy guy tried to give away a set of shower gels and soaps that he had stolen from the hotel. The toy that was given to him. In response to my indignation that he was not doing anything for me, he said that he DRIVES IN HIS CAR, AND GASOLINE IS EXPENSIVE!!!

There was another one who also drove and drove around the park, and then offered to eat strawberries right on the bench, after which he began to pester and was sent away.

This is an example of a woman’s healthy attitude towards male greed, but some begin to think that there is something wrong with them.

Men don’t sleep either! On the Internet you can find “tests for a mercantile woman” from men who want to be loved solely for their quivering soul and rich inner world. They, as one, want to meet a beautiful, smart, kind, sexually liberated girl, but they themselves are not ready to “invest” in this relationship.

Their message is something like this: you generously give me love, attention, support, sex, among other things, and I’ll just be as I am. And if a woman dares to make demands, then she immediately becomes a mercantile bitch who only needs money.

I’ll give you an example from the forum of how such a man argues. Everything with him is very logical, justified, calculated, he has an almost sacred goal, and not just some kind of “greed” that they are trying to accuse him of:

I was once called greedy.

Basically, this word is used by beggars and idiots who are unable to earn money because of their feeble mind.

I earn from 160–200 tr. I immediately told the girl: I’m saving for an apartment. To buy an apartment in Moscow, even putting aside 100 rubles. per month, you need to save about 5 years to buy a cheap one-room apartment. I wanted to speed up this process and save more, but the women eat up all the money and that’s what.

You say “too bad! Go to a cafe to drink coffee… lala… it’s not expensive.” Is it true? Drink coffee for two — 500 rubles! COFFEE! Cafe? Have you been to a cafe? To have a NORMAL EAT FOR TWO in a cafe — check from 2000 rubles.

So, weekend — coffee, food, gasoline, cinema. 4 t.r. best case scenario. More flowers — 5 t.r. Once a month — a surprise. In short, the parties turned out to be 30–40 thousand. What’s the joke? Can’t eat at home? No really? Drink coffee for 250–300 rubles a glass? What’s this? What is this for?

Yes, I make money, but I know the value of money. This doesn’t mean that I have to buy all sorts of crap, even unnecessary stuff. If a girl can cook for me at home and watch a movie on the big screen at home. In warmth, comfort, care, than listening to the chomping of popcorn. And then they write: he earns money, but he can’t buy a meal for 500 rubles. RAVE! If only everything was limited to 500 rubles. It seems so, 500 here, 100 there, 2000 there, and then you wonder where the money went.

Here is another honest cry from the heart, characteristic, I think, of some men:

I’m a real miser, about whom they write later in such topics. I understand how disgusting this is, but I can’t do anything. Paying for someone — but for nothing, it just makes me feel bad on a physical level (something like a panic attack, and then the feeling that I was deceived).

I constantly find myself trying to parasitize friends, girls, etc. (allegedly I forget my wallet when I need to pay, I borrow small amounts — 500–1000 rubles and don’t pay them back, etc.)

I tried going to a psychologist, but it didn’t help. The work also takes its toll, when the company pays for all your drinking sessions with clients, you get used to it very quickly. The only hope is to find some completely downtrodden woman from a poor family who has not seen a good life.

Women who get hooked and invest in relationships with this kind of men will at some point discover the terrible truth that they were trying to fight against a concrete wall of indifference, coldness, selfishness, infantilism of an adult, seemingly a man, but in reality an indifferent boy, stingy not only with money, but also with love, attention, understanding, care.

Such a boy has calculated everything down to the penny, but does not understand how he is robbing himself, and even trying to rob a woman who has not yet figured out what kind of “dried fruit” was next to her.

This boy wants unconditional maternal love and acceptance, but is not able to take responsibility for the woman who is next to him.

I will give an excerpt from the discussion with a great answer from a woman (I have underlined the thoughts that particularly resonated with me):

Guest

And if you don’t think he should, then there’s no point in reproaching him for pettiness. “Money loves money” — have you heard this expression? Or did you seriously expect that he would just take everything for you and pay for you, even the same 20–30 rubles? Why the fright?

Guest

And why, excuse me, “scared” do these men invite women on dates? Here, of course, the question is more for women, why do they allow all these situations and continue to communicate further… but there is such a thing as pathological greed, this is a serious mental disorder that requires treatment.

And in general, the more petty a person is, the less he gets in life. Then they will spend the rest of their lives counting their pennies and walking around in rags, paying mortgages — is such a life pleasant for them? It’s not that you won’t feel like a man; in such conditions it’s difficult to feel like a man. People who are accomplished and personally mature, it doesn’t matter whether they are men or women, have such nonsense about who pays someone 30 rubles for coffee. should, they don’t do it.

And a man is, first of all, a support, a person you can rely on financially, including. This is a protector and provider — this is the nature of men. And if for some reason this nature is violated, then first of all the man himself suffers from his insolvency.

Don’t pour your “rogue philosophy” into everyone’s ears here, Mr. Anal Man (S. Freud — personality types), get your butt off the couch, unstick your eyes from the computer and go ahead — realize your masculine potential as a conqueror! Weak?)

Have you noticed: if a man is greedy in his relationship with his woman, then luck turns away from him? And if a woman is happy and content in a relationship, then she “blesses” her man with good luck and literally “attracts” great opportunities to him.

Sometimes a woman at the beginning of a relationship strives to show her chosen one that she does not love him because of money, and behaves more than modestly in terms of desires, “oh, what are you, what are you, I’m not like that, I don’t need anything” — and she is making a mistake. You must be able to accept with pleasure a man’s generosity and desire to pamper you.

I would like to give another quote, which may be ambiguous for some:

Often a man asks: “You don’t love me because of money, do you?” Correct answer: “And because of the money too!” Of course, it is worth adding that monetary energy is an analogue of sexual energy, part of a man’s personality and his energy, proof that a man is capable in all respects.

It happens, of course, that someone is “loved” only because of money, but this is not about love, and not the topic of this article. The line is thin, it’s difficult to draw, but that’s why we are people, we get to know each other, build relationships with those with whom we feel good, reliable and pleasant.

I will give more interesting examples of how family life later develops with such a “greedy” man.

Guest

That’s how thrifty and thrifty, he won’t go to waste, and his family will always be in good shape! It all starts with saving. The family economy should be economical.

Guest

And here you are wrong, I had the same shot. I also used a calculator to calculate how much toilet paper SHOULD be enough for a family of three :-)

Using a calculator I calculated how many underpants should last me for a whole year, and why I don’t sew up torn underpants and socks :-)

And the apotheosis of miserliness — he calculated how much electricity I would generate (!!!!!!!!!) while I was sitting on the push :-), and always muttered that I was using a lot of light :-) :-) and, by the way, he came came to me with two pairs of socks, he didn’t have any more. Honestly.

Let me give you another opinion:

Vika

My husband is also a hoarder. True, he doesn’t drink, doesn’t cheat, loves our children very much, and also earns decently (about 200 rubles). Gives about 50 thousand rubles per family. But he constantly controls expenses. And he often finds fault with my purchases. He collects the rest of the money to buy apartments for his children.

He doesn’t like to give me flowers, he thinks it’s stupid. Helps his parents and my money on a monthly basis. He bought the apartment before marriage.

Girls, well, you have everything you need for life, no loans. But he constantly counts expenses and always collects. If he goes to the store, he buys only the minimum necessary. We don’t go on vacation either, because we live by the sea, and he thinks it’s stupid. He always says that the sea is the same everywhere. I’m very tired of his curmudgeonly behavior.

He promises to allocate more money to the family, but every time this is discussed it leads to a scandal. He has no hobbies and doesn’t spend extra money on a car. I’m trying to get money from him for clothes, he says that 50 thousand rubles is enough. for everything and clothes too, I just spend them incorrectly.

I’m a woman, and I need a lot of things, he doesn’t understand why I need lipstick in different shades or several mascaras, he thinks it’s all stupid. I don’t work because I’m still on maternity leave. He tells me: “If you want to live better, go work.” He never claims my money, but he doesn’t want to give me his “extra” money. What should I do?