avatarLucy Dan 蛋小姐 (she/her/她)

Summary

The author reflects on a personal transformation from feeling unlucky, especially after being scammed, to experiencing a shift in perspective after recent fortunate events.

Abstract

The author initially saw themselves as unlucky, particularly after a scam incident detailed in a linked article. This perception was accompanied by feelings of shame and self-reproach for not being more discerning. However, a change occurred when the author won a grocery store gift card and a Goodreads giveaway in January, which served as tangible proof that good things could happen without their control. This evidence of good fortune led to an immediate improvement in the author's mood and a hopeful outlook, extending a wish for similar positive experiences to others.

Opinions

  • The author previously held a belief of being unlucky, which was reinforced by a past scam experience.
  • Reflecting on the scam incident, the author felt a strong sense of shame and self-blame for not being cautious.
  • The author's belief system began to shift after unexpectedly winning a gift card and a book giveaway.
  • These positive occurrences provided the author with concrete examples of good luck, which helped to dispel their long-held belief in their own bad luck.
  • The author now acknowledges that good things can happen to anyone, including themselves, and expresses a genuine desire for others to experience fortunate events as well.

Do you ever witness a shift in your own beliefs? For the longest time, I thought myself as unlucky, particularly when reflecting on the time I got scammed:

When re-reading this, I still remember this vivid sense of shame, of “I should have known better.”

Most recently, something shifted. In January alone, I won a gift card to a grocery store for filling out the surveys on receipts and a Goodreads giveaway! Having affirmative evidence that “some good could happen”, even if it was outside of my control, helped shift my mood instantly.

Good things can happen. And I hope, from the bottom of my heart, that they can happen to you too.

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Lucky
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Scam
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