Do Not Trust This, Do Not Trust That, Because of This & That

Everything stays the same, no one has the ability to learn

Do Not Trust This, Do Not Trust That, Because of This & That

Everything stays the same, no one has the ability to learn — not even the puppy in the picture who was adopted (birthed by a Christian mother dog and an Atheist father, the mother died by drugs and the father died by saving a child, but was mistaken for a bad dog and put down; and a puppy no one knows was adopted, so is given a spotlight for excellent performance based on looks. Turns out he cannot read, so he turned to modeling. Now his followers follow his politics on Chile)

My Experience Leads Me to Teach Tunnel-Vision & Simplemindedness

That was a joke. Could you imagine if everything was one thing or another? No statistics. No reference degrees. No reference points. There is a millionaire who credits his parents for what he knows of business. There is a millionaire who credits his street smarts after being homeless for 10 years. There is a Navy SEAL who credits his single mother who worked two jobs and spent 20 minutes a day with him. There is a Navy SEAL who credits his farmland parents who used to let him sit on his dad’s lap on the tractor 3 hours day.

Daily, I read articles “The Moon Should Be Your Motivation” — even if they’re blind.

As H3H3 would say, “It’s time to STOP” Y’all giving me a headache. Y’all make me want to jump off a building — if there is a pool below and the roof is only 20 feet, while I read on Medium “NEVER JUMP FROM A ROOF: My Experience”.

There are men who ended up in different places, but were born the exact same way and there were people from different cultures collaborating on philosophy and both married Asian women. And there are some women who look like men — look, point is:

Everything is about the BRAIN

What one man committed suicide over, another man became a Clinical Psychologist for. What kind of baby one mother protected more than her other children, another mother drowned.

You cannot assess one man or one woman based on one thing into a category. I’ve said this before, “You can either be changed by your past or you can allow your future and your Hope to change you for what’s to come.” You cannot assess my past to see where I’m going, but you can assess my Hope and future to understand it. While some people are sucked into their past so deep they quit everything they put their hands to, but they try to fool everyone.

I had a full traditional family, church friends, schools, and with fantastic values that they lived by. This is true. So, why did I have to develop myself?

Also true: I grew up with a speech impediment, a father who worked 3rd shift for 16 years, lived on a dirt road, a mother who was emotionally negligent and got annoyed by my speech impediment, and a school who did sh*t to help me, just like everyone else in my life. My speech therapist was sh*t. In elementary school my best friend was Puerto Rican (name was Alberto Tito Colon — have not seen him or talked with him since 4th grade). I’m a Christian with some Muslim and Atheist friends and would like a another friend (I’m thinking of a specific belief system, but I will not name it — it is one that the person of this belief system would know exactly who I’m talking about right now).

Some headline types I read on Medium (not actual titles, so as to be respectful):

• Never Trust a White Man Who was only Friends with Puerto Ricans in 3rd and 4th grade, who has been invited to all-black parties before, and knew some curse words in Hangul
• Never EVER Trust Women with 5 Fingers of different sizes
• Never Trust Anyone Who Can’t Spel, Like all Doctors — Like I Said
• Never Trust a Man Who Does Not Hold the Door Open for Women— and the teen girl took that advice when she met a man with no arms. Now she’s asking where all the good guy are.

Nonetheless

• I am published
• I have an LLC and a nonprofit
• Life coach certified
• Was in the military police
• And more…

My nonprofit has had no consistent sponsors in over a year of operating, thus no staff or volunteers. But, there is a woman I know who was born and raised by a single mother who also has a nonprofit, but had volunteers in her nonprofit since day 1 and she is on salary in her own nonprofit today — turns out she is very well spoken and, well, woman.

There are a few constants in life. For example: 90% of the greatest sales personnel and fundraisers are women. I could have even guessed that. Because they: statistically have better verbal communication, connect with the more emotional sex (their sex), and men do whatever they want if they smile at them and say “AWWWWW, thanks so much! You are the best! See you next year in supporting Extraterrestrial Life living in 23.72 year-old Northern Sudan Palm Trees”. Instead of people helping build great missions, they build the greatest presenterrrrrr’s house instead. Your past has nothing to do with your presentation ability. Your brain does. That millionaire with great parents also had another child, who is not a millionaire, but a homeless man has become a millionaire — who had a sibling also, who died of a opioid overdose. And the millionaire with great parents has a terrible public speaking voice, but because he can’t speak English very well, Americans make fun of him.

Statistics run everything. Nothing is just one thing or another. It all goes back to neurological statistics.

I’ve learned a lot in my life. I’ve been told when I was 27 that I should marry a woman who was 47 because of my maturity. But, I do not believe one matures with a negligent mother. So, how did I become mature? No one knows, it doesn’t matter. What matters is where I am and what I am running towards.

Women, find your outliers before you judge.

If you do not know how to test your outlier, ask someone who WOULD know!

Here are two other reasons to not trust “one size fits all” BS:

• A Christian using the term “it takes a community” is an oxymoron. Although having a great community is BIBLICAL and 95% of churches are not one, the term “it takes a community” comes from a specific thing that no Christian agrees with.
• And 2: Disclaimer: you cannot trust 100% of men who say they are Christian. You have to know the principles of Christianity and see them played out in his life. When you see a man live principles and they say they are Christian — some articles would say “marry him and do not marry a man who does not display principles”. But, nothing is one thing or another and you have women listening to the crap — and paying for it! Legitimately paying money for it! He might not be “displaying” Christian principles when you see him because he just prayed over a little girl who’s mother killed herself and your GodDam* “Christian” man displaying principles in peacetime, has never been in a real life situation where his principles were tested and sharpened. You are dating a joke. The woman wonders why he’s weird behind the curtain. Good job at leading all women astray. Women, stop being so easily maneuvered like the women on Instagram — I see your fake product “collaboration” smiles. Pay attention to people who know some strategic intelligence. Go back to the only man you trust being your father. Unless your mother is not happy, then don’t trust your father. Don’t trust that statement, your mother might not be happy because she cheated on a good man.

Everything is about the brain

Do not kill the puppy because society publicly seen crimes of his parents, but the crimes of yours were thrown in a frozen lake. Dogs from the humane society tend to be more well-behaved when they are adopted, proving emotional intelligence across all pasts — I mean, breeds, I mean, every type except Chihuahuas.

Some people who bullied others grew up without a mother because she died of cancer, others who became good lawyers, a mother from a heroine overdose.

Some guys have no tact because they are stalkers, others because they are geniuses who work 18 hours a day — one thing they have in common is, neither has time for you.

Stop judging, start assessing through neurological and spiritual scanning against statistic reference points.

To learn more about global weather, do not listen the U.S. Department of Energy, we have 12 year-olds with self-knighted Ph.D.’s and TV hosts with a bachelor’s in biology.

Do not listen to a military member with 5 years learning about virus response, but listen to the news that promotes a doctor who get’s paid for you seeing them.

From the movie, The Recruit, “Nothing is the way it seems” it takes research and time.