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Summary

The web content discusses two approaches for designing one's ideal life partner based on self-awareness and energetic vibration.

Abstract

The article introduces the concept of "designing your life partner" through two distinct methods: the specific approach and the angelic approach. The specific approach involves creating a detailed list of desired partner attributes, including values, relationship dynamics, intimacy preferences, and physical appearance, and continuously updating it to manifest the ideal match. This method emphasizes the importance of knowing oneself and what is desired in a partner. The angelic approach, on the other hand, relies on the intervention of angels or spirit guides to find a compatible partner based on the individual's level of energetic vibration and personal growth. It suggests that by focusing on one's divine life path and self-improvement, the universe will align you with a partner who has done similar inner work. The article encourages readers to trust the process and be open to receiving love without actively pursuing it.

Opinions

  • The author believes that knowing oneself is crucial in attracting the right life partner.
  • There is an emphasis on the importance of aligning one's energetic vibration with the qualities desired in a partner.
  • The specific approach suggests that being explicit about intimate desires can prevent future dissatisfaction or infidelity.
  • The article posits that focusing on internal beauty and compatibility is more likely to result in a successful relationship than prioritizing physical appearance.
  • The angelic approach is presented as a divinely guided process that requires personal growth and alignment with one's life path.
  • The author advocates for patience and trust in the divine timing of when the right partner will appear.
  • The article implies that a relationship founded on mutual giving rather than taking is more resilient to conflicts.

Design your life partner using the specific or angelic approach

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The idea of designing your life partner allows you to get closer to finding a match based on criteria that you believe are ideal for you to have in a strong and stable relationship. I can tell you that it works because I used it and a few friends as well. After testing it, it is time to share the technique with others.

But it really works when you really know yourself very well and knows what you want from your partner.

Otherwise, approach it as an experiment to attract potential partners and see for yourself. They might not be perfect in all area that you desire, but it will allow you to learn and understand what you don’t like, which also imply knowing what you like.

There are two ways to do it:

A specific approach because you know yourself and know what you want from a partner, and there is the life path approach, where you request that your angels/ spirit guides find you the best match based on the level of energetic vibration you emit.

For instance, if you seek a partner that is successful, smart, and sweet, you need to match at least that energetic vibration by becoming the same, otherwise you will meet a close but not perfect version of what you are seeking.

Let’s explore those 2 approaches:

A specific approach for finding a life partner

The goal of taking the specific approach is to help you find what you want. When you have new data about what you like or dislike, go back to it and update the document accordingly.

Fill out each section of this list on a continuous basis to get to the closest version you want and the universe will take care of it.

  1. A general statement about your partner: Write anything you would like to have using a positive tone.
  2. Values: write about the values you will like her or him to have. Write in terms of values you also believe in as well. For instance: She is nice, he is family-oriented, She knows how to take care of home……
  3. Relationships: How they interact with others? From my experience, it’s best to know how well they treat others. If they treat you well and you notice that you have a different way to treat others, you will one day experience the same treatment. Make sure you are happy with the way they treat others before you.
  4. Intimacy: In this section write everything you will like her or him to be in the intimate setting. Outside and inside the house. Add all of your fantasies into it as well. If you don’t, you might one day be tempted to experience one of your fantasy and your partner will not be receptive which could lead to a strong desired to seek it outside your marriage/union. Do not shy away from saying so. You are manifesting your ideal partner. Many do not because they feel shy and then regret it later on.
  5. Physical appearance: describe all physical features you like or don’t like. Be specific and enjoy the process.
  6. Conflict resolution: When you guys are going through some hardship or misunderstanding, how would you like both to deal with it? Whatever you will say in this section will help you both find resolution when both disagree. You can be specific to the point where you say, I will be upset for no more than 2 days, or we will not go to bed upset at each other.

It is always better to go for peace than to be right, but only mature couples know this rule. When both give to each other rather than ask from each other, no conflict can arrise.

8. Add an image of him or her: get some inspiration on social media or if you have an idea of the body type you would like to attract. Go for it. However, remember also that physical appearance comes with another set of criteria and demands that you need to be aware of. Focusing more on internal rather than external beauty will yield a better outcome based on observation.

Do you prefer a slime or rounded body type? Be specific of what you like most and dislike.

Everything written above has been tested on myself and others — Take the necessary time to reflect on your choices, and he or she will become a reality. Guaranteed.

From experience, you sometimes forget some aspect and that is why using the next approach you will see next can really help find an ideal partner.

Image from wallpaperaccess — Angelic gift of love

An angel guided approach for finding a life partner

This one is a simple and very powerful one, and it finds the partner that you need. It came to me as the other quizzes came to me, divinely on the day of my birthday last year as a gift from my Angels and Spirit Guides. It is important to know that it related to the level of vibration you have.

When you use it, be prepared to do the necessary work on yourself for the universe/ god / 000 to match you with that person.

In my case, I have to be on my divine life path for me to see or be seen by this person. It took me 8 months of personal growth before the partner that was divinely chosen for me show-up. She already did her inner work and you can tell by the level of maturity to exuded when I met her. Do not worry about how it will happen, focus on your path, and trust that the person will show up. Angels have a way of making sure that both of you don’t miss each other and it will be so obvious, I promise.

Read it out loud, repeat every day, and believe in this statement:

Dear Angels, I wish for a love that comes to me is the perfect way for me.

After you have done it, get moving with your life path and be open to receive. There is no need for you to go after someone else. On due time, it will reveal itself and you will know it.

I leave you in the love and light of the infinite creator, go forth and find the person that will open your heart.

Bonaventure Barry

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