Death Took You Away Your memory prevail

Summary

The author, Gabriella, mourns the loss of her beloved aunt, Kati, reflecting on her vibrant personality, the impact of her life on her family, and the legacy she leaves behind.

Abstract

Gabriella expresses deep sorrow over the passing of her aunt, Funk Kati, who was a pillar of strength and joy in her life. Kati's presence was a source of comfort and support during challenging times, and her love for life was evident in her appreciation for good food, humor, and her dedication to family. Despite her struggles with smoking and later with cancer, Kati's resilience and determination shone through. Gabriella cherishes the memories of Kati's vibrant spirit and is considering genetic testing as a tribute to her aunt's interest in family history. The pain of loss is tempered by the knowledge that Kati is no longer suffering, and her legacy of love, joy, and kindness continues to inspire those who knew her.

Opinions

Gabriella deeply admired her aunt Kati's humor, straightforwardness, and her ability to be present for her family when needed.
Kati's love for her family was evident in her actions and her inquiries about family history and genetic testing.
The author feels a profound sense of loss and grief but finds solace in the belief that Kati is now at peace.
Kati's death has left a void in the lives of her loved ones, including her husband, children, grandchildren, siblings, and extended family.
Gabriella is committed to honoring Kati's memory by continuing to explore their family history, a pursuit that Kati was passionate about.
The author's heart is described as broken, indicating the depth of her emotional connection to her aunt.
Despite the pain, Gabriella acknowledges that love will ultimately prevail over the sorrow of losing Kati.
The author believes that Kati's positive attributes, such as her joy and kindness, will be remembered and cherished by all who knew her.

Death Took You Away Your memory prevail

My aunt Kati photo by Gabriella 2011

The way I remember you Kati.

Grief strikes my heart as we had to say goodbye to my aunt Funk Kati born Kőrösi. I remember my aunt showing up in my life at various times just when I needed her. Somehow, she was there. I loved her humor and her straightness of just saying how things are. She loved good food, croissants, and good coffee.

She struggled with smoking and tried to stop it many times. She would do anything for her family, she was there, and she made things happen. She was good at researching and finding things. One of the last messages I got from her was her looking at our family tree back at her grandmother. She asked me about genetic testing I have done but the one I had done was more about tracing ancestry, maternal line, and medical and trait information.

Now I am thinking I should do one anyway to her honor to keep doing what she started learn more about our family and go back as far as we can.

Back to my aunt. I just loved her. She was Kati, you can not, not love her. Somehow her Charisma just takes you and sweeps you away. There was not much saying no to her. Last time I saw my aunt was when I visited Hungary before COVID hit. She struggled with cancer, had treatments, and was able to beat it. Now it comes back. It was too much. Her body could not take this hit. The world lost a wonderful and kind, loving human being. I already miss her. It is weird to know I can not call, I can not message, and she will not be there anymore.

Pain and grief strike my heart. The peace comes from knowing she is fine now. She is at peace. She is not suffering. It is always the people who are staying behind who suffer. In the last few days, I sent her as much love as I could and wished very hard for her not to be in any pain. That is what we want for our loved ones, for them not to hurt even if it causes us pain.

My heart is broken, and I know it will take some time to heal. Kati leaves behind a wonderful husband and three children and four grandchildren, a brother, a sister, and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

A tribune to my Aunt

Your love shines on my heart, Your death took us apart. Even though your body is gone, Your Joy and Kindness stay in my heart.

Miss you greatly my darling aunt, The pain of death strikes across my heart. In the end, I know that Love will win. The painful memory of your death Will be replaced by the love of our past.

Flying birds take the song, Up to the heavens where she belongs. Joyful notes carry away. She is loved by so many souls.

Good by for now, darling aunt. Thank you for all the joy, You have brought into so many lives. Sending love where no one can, Hope you will get some part of this message. You are loved in so many ways.

Broken hearts sing your praise. With love, Gabriella

May your memories shine by those who were fortunate to know you in this life.