Dating single fathers/ mothers?
I dated a single father a few years ago back in Hong Kong before I got married. We were happy and I like his children while they like me too. But slowly I realised that it’s not that simple – it’s not just about us, you also have to consider and adjust your times and expectations with your partner’s children.
The two of you may planned a trip together and because the kids are sick you have to cancel it etc.
Your partner wanted to take you to a nice place for a romantic dinner but the nanny suddenly took the day off, so you end up eating pizza at his home with the kids instead.
These are small things, but when it becomes routine, you’ve realised that you’ll never be his priority, because he has kids. And of course that’s understandable, just are you ready for such a relationship?
If he would met the “right woman”, she will not only love him but also his children – And you cannot expect someone to love your children – the same goes for some single mothers who have children with them.
I guess relationship and life is always not easy…