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ituation with your partner. Let him or her know how you thought that the two of you connected, and tell him or her your concerns. Ask him or her what he or she thinks about the situation, and talk about your future with him or her.</p><figure id="bf54"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*vhkO31z7iFnVavcq"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@towfiqu999999?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Towfiqu barbhuiya</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="6b6b"><b>2. Decide whether the two of you will give the relationship a chance.</b></p><p id="447a">Talk to the other person if the two of you should continue on with your relationship or if the two of you are so different that you want to try something different. Try to be on the same page with your partner when making this decision so the two of you can try to move on amicably.</p><figure id="92cd"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*846evLEU2KQ_zp91"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@gpthree?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">George Pagan III</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="110d"><b>3. Reflect on your needs.</b></p><p id=

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"9228">If the two of you do decide to part ways, take some time to reflect on your wants and needs. What are you looking for in a relationship? What attributes are you looking for in a partner? Do your best to understand what you are looking for and reflect on if any of the things that you are looking for are things that you could find in yourself.</p><figure id="2996"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*iIzYmRtHIYmq8iKB"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@mostafa_meraji?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">mostafa meraji</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="2cc6"><b>4. Observe the next situation.</b></p><p id="35b4">You might begin dating other people, and if this is the case, you may want to pay attention to the qualities in the new person that you are dating. Try to spend enough time with him or her so you can really get to know who he or she is, and see how the two of you get along in social situations.</p><p id="d68d"><i>If the person that you are dating isn’t the person that you though he or she was then you may want to talk to him or her about this. Work together to decide what the next step is, and if the two of you part ways, then try to take time to reflect on your needs.</i></p></article></body>

Dating Facade

Was it ever real?

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You might have been attracted to someone and thought that the qualities and interests that he or she had were a great match for your lifestyle. The two of you might have started dating, but as time went on, you might have realized that the person that you were with was not the person that you thought that he or she was. So, what do you do if you are in this type of situation? How do you approach it? Though the answers to these questions can be different for everyone, here are a few suggestions.

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1. Talk to the other person.

Discuss this situation with your partner. Let him or her know how you thought that the two of you connected, and tell him or her your concerns. Ask him or her what he or she thinks about the situation, and talk about your future with him or her.

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2. Decide whether the two of you will give the relationship a chance.

Talk to the other person if the two of you should continue on with your relationship or if the two of you are so different that you want to try something different. Try to be on the same page with your partner when making this decision so the two of you can try to move on amicably.

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3. Reflect on your needs.

If the two of you do decide to part ways, take some time to reflect on your wants and needs. What are you looking for in a relationship? What attributes are you looking for in a partner? Do your best to understand what you are looking for and reflect on if any of the things that you are looking for are things that you could find in yourself.

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4. Observe the next situation.

You might begin dating other people, and if this is the case, you may want to pay attention to the qualities in the new person that you are dating. Try to spend enough time with him or her so you can really get to know who he or she is, and see how the two of you get along in social situations.

If the person that you are dating isn’t the person that you though he or she was then you may want to talk to him or her about this. Work together to decide what the next step is, and if the two of you part ways, then try to take time to reflect on your needs.

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