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Summary

The author recounts an initially uncertain but ultimately magical and memorable first night in Edinburgh with her sort-of-boyfriend, which turned into a cherished experience that led to their marriage.

Abstract

The narrative begins with the author and her sort-of-boyfriend searching for a lively whiskey bar in Edinburgh, only to find the streets dark and empty, causing a moment of doubt. Despite the inauspicious start, they stumble upon a vibrant, warm bar filled with music, whiskey, and camaraderie. This serendipitous discovery marks the beginning of a beautiful trip, which the author now fondly remembers as the first of many adventures with her now-husband. The night, initially fraught with the anxiety of a new relationship and the pressure of planning a perfect outing, transitions into a joyous celebration of spontaneity and connection.

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  • The author initially feels hopeful but becomes anxious when the street they are directed to seems deserted and the recommended bar appears closed.
  • There is a sense of nervous excitement about the spontaneity of the boyfriend joining the trip last minute and the potential impact on their relationship.
  • The author's optimism is tested by the seemingly closed establishments, hinting at doubts about the success of the evening and the trip.
  • Upon finding the bar open and lively, the author's relief and joy are palpable, suggesting a positive turn in the night's experiences.
  • The author holds a favorable view of the bar's atmosphere, the music, the warmth, and the overall experience, which becomes a cherished memory for her and her boyfriend, now husband.
  • The evening's events are seen in retrospect as a significant and positive milestone in their relationship, with the "whiskey-soaked green" flags symbolizing good fortune and a promising future together.
  • The author encourages readers to support her work and other writers on Medium by joining the platform, implying that such stories are made possible through reader subscriptions.

Dark Empty Streets And Warm Whiskey Dreams

Finding flights and fiddles in Edinburgh, Scotland

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It’s down this street” I pointed, hopeful. But as we turned the corner, my heart sank. The street was empty. Deserted. And dark. We were looking for a fun bar to do some whiskey tasting, but nothing on this street looked open, much less like a gateway to a memorable evening.

This was the first night of the first trip my sort-of-boyfriend and I took together. In reality, we hadn’t even planned the trip together. I had planned a solo trip to Edinburgh, and he called me on the first night and asked if he could fly in and join me. I was impressed by his spontaneity, but nervous it was too soon. We had only been dating a few months, and I liked traveling alone.

The first day would be a flag for how the rest of the week was going to go. I just wasn’t sure what color the flag would be.

The snow crunched under our feet as we continued in silence. I opened my mouth to say something hopeful but shut it as we walked by yet another store that was dark and closed. “Are you sure this was where you wanted to go?” he asked. His voice was steady, but his eyes were doubtful. “Yeah, I’m sure,” I said, not meeting his gaze. I had researched the best bars to go to Edinborough and this was the one that was recommended over and over. They said they were open online, but my optimism was fading fast. It was supposed to be at the end of the street, but we had not passed a single place that was open. I wondered if the evening was going to start on a low note.

It’s there on the left,” I said, relieved we had found it. The building had thick, black siding, and the windows were covered by heavy drapes. As we got closer, I couldn’t see any lights, and I silently cursed my luck in my head.

I reached forward and pulled at the handle to the front door, expecting to feel the tug of a locked door. But, instead — whoosh! The door slid open, warm air and lights rushing out with it. There was also music. Bagpipes, a fiddle, and a couple of other instruments I couldn’t name. “Let’s check it out,” I said, looking up at my boyfriend and smiling. He smiled back and grabbed my hand.

We walked into the bar and I knew instantly I had made the right decision. It was perfect. A jolly bartender was pouring a whiskey-tasting flight at the bar. There was a roaring fireplace. Small groups and couples sat at tables tucked in cozy corners. And a group of five musicians were at a table drinking and playing their instruments, jamming in harmony as the mood hit them.

What followed was one of my favorite nights to date with my then-boyfriend and now husband. We tasted whiskey, sang with the band, danced, and closed down the bar. We ended the night drinking on the walk back to our hotel with a few new friends we had met.

It started with uncertainty, but ended with an amazing experience we still talk about.

That night there were no red flags… just whiskey-soaked green ones.

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