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The web content describes a personal account of engaging in intimate activities outdoors and emphasizes the importance of choosing secluded locations to avoid imposing on others.

Abstract

The article recounts the author's experience of having a sexual encounter with their partner in an open field, highlighting the thrill and liberation of outdoor intimacy. It touches on the historical context of such activities, the challenges of finding privacy in crowded urban spaces, and the impact of weather on the experience. The narrative includes details of the author's first outdoor sexual experience, emphasizing the excitement of potential exposure and the heightened sensory experience. The author reflects on the importance of consent and privacy, advising couples to be considerate and cautious when choosing a location for outdoor fun to avoid disturbing others. The article concludes with a personal anecdote about witnessing an inconsiderate public display of affection that left the author feeling uncomfortable, reinforcing the message of respecting others' boundaries.

Opinions

  • Outdoor sexual activities can be exhilarating and bonding for couples but should be conducted with discretion.
  • Choosing the right location is crucial to ensure privacy and avoid unintentionally involving non-consenting individuals.
  • The author believes that shared experiences, such as outdoor sex, can strengthen a relationship.
  • There is a distinction made between consensual voyeurism and non-consensual exposure to others' sexual activities.
  • The author reflects on a past negative experience of witnessing public sex without consent, emphasizing the importance of respect and consideration for others in public spaces.
  • The article suggests that outdoor sex should be a spontaneous and memorable activity for couples, enhancing emotional closeness.
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Fun in the sun

Dare to come outside for some Sexy fun?

We sat down under a large old tree, in a very open field, just outside the grounds of a massive hotel

Going outside for some sexy fun can be exciting and daring but may be viewed as taboo by some people. Particularly, in recent strange times. However, such a shared experience can prove to be liberating and fun too. Although, it is very important to choose carefully where you lay your rug — so as not to inflict your desires on others.

At one with nature

Of course, people have been cavorting in the open air since the dawn of time. But the towns and cities grew ever-larger and as a knock-on effect the open spaces became more crowded. So nowadays it can be difficult to find a suitably quiet venue. A place where you won’t accidentally impose your act of passion on an innocent passer-by. Although voyeurism is something of a thrill for some kinksters, others may not wish to be subjected to such frolics.

My partner and I love the fresh air and highly wooded, oxygenated areas. In the past, we were fortunate to work in the countryside and so were able to take advantage of glorious surroundings when the weather was warm enough.

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Let me tell you about the first time we took our love outside…

Back in July 2014 the UK was bathed in some very temperate weather. I was visiting my partner in an unfamiliar area. One lunchtime we set off with some food and picnicked beside the river. The sun rays were bouncing off the water as we chatted and ate. In those days I used to talk about sex a lot. Trying to make sense of what I liked and why. The heat from both the sunshine and conversation must have had an effect on him. After finishing the food he took my hand and marched me off to find a comfortable spot.

We sat down under a large old tree, in a very open field, just outside the grounds of a massive hotel and finished our wine. Soon we were kissing and his hand slipped under my dress teasing my thighs. Feeling a little self-conscious, I said,

“We’re very exposed here. What if someone from the hotel or out walking their dog sees us?”

“Take a look around, May. We have an incredible viewpoint. We’ll spot them before they do us.”

Dare to Bare all

I surveyed the surround. Indeed, the very fact that we were in a particularly open area meant it was extremely unlikely we could be surprised at close range. No one was going to “stumble across” us, and our position promised fair warning of any strollers.

I lay back on the grass while he grabbed my wrists and using his belt tied them above my head.

In no time his fingers reached inside my panties stroking and probing. I pushed against his hand, enthusiastically enjoying the moment, letting him explore my cunt; the idea of a stranger watching titivating my senses.

In those early days when we were together it seemed my body was on hyper alert. Senses were heightened yet I sometimes found it difficult to climax. However, he’d discovered one sure way to push me over the edge. His tongue.

Knickers cast aside, he lifted my skirt and his head found its way between the warmth of my thighs. The breeze grazing the sensitive areas. Having my bare legs and pussy exposed in this way felt dirty, as well as free and liberating. Anyone could have seen us. Seen me.

He began to lick my bud and along the fold, then slipped his tongue deep inside. It really didn’t take too long before I was thrusting my hips up against his face and pushing my head back onto the grass as I exclaimed my pleasure.

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Shared experiences

The experience certainly has stayed with us and at the time helped cement our relationship. Now, quite a few years later, participating in similar outdoor fun always livens up the dynamics and brings us emotionally closer. After all, a good partnership thrives on shared activity. And the more spontaneous, the more likely it will lay down a memory that you will both cherish.

However, as mentioned above, be considerate of others. Pick your location wisely, then it is unlikely anyone will become privy to your private yet public display.

Keeping your passion private

Many years ago, I did witness a couple having sex in a public place. Remembering that incident caused my hesitation when under the tree with my partner.

As a young woman, I travelled quite a bit. On one occasion in northern Spain my then partner and I were visiting a famous festival. Looking back my memories of that time are really marred. The actual celebration was abhorrent enough, but then the sight of a couple having full intercourse in the open on the town green made me run away screaming. They showed no hint of respect for the people walking by with children. I had become a part of a spectacle in which I would never have chosen to participate. I was left feeling slightly violated and grubby.

However, I still absolutely recommend you go outside in the sunshine and enjoy each other in the open air. But with one important proviso: pick your spot carefully, be mindful and try not to be caught with your pants down!

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