Summary

The article "Daily Desire: I Desire To Begin Again" encourages embracing the journey of starting over with mindfulness and self-compassion to foster personal growth and fulfillment.

Abstract

The article discusses the concept of beginning again as a transformative process rather than a sign of failure. It emphasizes the importance of being present and engaged in the current moment, rather than fixating on an idealized future or past. The author suggests that life is a continuous journey, not defined by destinations, and that true contentment lies in nurturing the present. The piece advises against filling life with distractions and instead recommends intentional, deliberate steps towards one's goals while remaining open to change and uncertainty. It encourages readers to reflect on their relationship with starting over and to share their experiences of crafting a life story that aligns with their true selves and brings a sense of purpose and expansion.

Opinions

The author believes that the process of starting over is an opportunity for growth and alignment with one's innate desires.
It is suggested that being fully present in the moment and with those around us is more important than reaching a specific goal or destination.
The article posits that the pursuit of distractions does not lead to fulfillment and that conscious choices are key to a meaningful life.
The author advocates for a flexible approach to life goals, allowing for pivots and adjustments as needed.
Self-kindness is highlighted as crucial when navigating the non-linear path of life.
The piece challenges readers to consider how they might inspire others by sharing their journey of beginning again.

“Daily Desire: I Desire To Begin Again”

Simple steps for starting over when you’re feeling discontent

Despite starting at the bottom of the mountain, despite standing alone at the base, your eyes on the prized peak, remember you are exactly where you need to be.

The snail is unaware of the mountainside it happens to be e v e r s o slowly ascending.

This life is a process, a journey between “here” and “there.” It isn’t about the final destination. However, you define here and there as focal points in time. Let this be a reminder to be fully in the process, in the moment, with those who are already right in front of and beside you rather than dashing to arrive, in an imaginary place. The grass is not greener on the other side. It’s greener wherever you choose to water it.

The only truth is what is right in front of you. Is it a fully conscious choice?

Filling the empty spaces in your mind with busy-work doesn’t always equal fulfillment. Sometimes your entire day is filled with distraction.

Snacking.

Updating your social media.

Hiding from friends, or the opposite, always surrounded by friends.

Chores & tidying up.

The list goes on.

The feeling of discontent when you “aren’t there yet” and discontent when you “want to be somewhere else” pervades your life. We’re all guilty of it.

Wanting to control the speed, depth, and duration of an outcome is common. It reinforces a feeling of safety and what you know. It also allows you to plan accordingly. If it feels like you have a sense of agency in your life.

On the flip side, it keeps you on an eerily similar storyline and experience in life. I hope you’re enjoying your current plot.

Beginning again is not about quitting.

It is about feeling your innate desires and willpower merging as one, focusing on a goal and taking intentional, deliberate steps towards your goal. While also remaining receptive to what you don’t know, pivoting and making as many re-adjustments as needed. Being kind to yourself. Realize this life is not a linear projection, but rather an infinite cycle, a wave form.

Try submitting to this wildly uncertain, exciting unknown.

Begin again.

What does your relationship to starting over, or beginning again, look like? What are some moves (and pauses) you’ve made in order to begin again? How have you begun writing a storyline that suits your truest essence? Gives you a sense of purpose and fulfillment? Brings you a feeling of expansiveness? You never know who you might inspire with your words, your story. Who will be moved by your truth?

-Angelie F. H.