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The content discusses the challenges faced by transgender individuals, particularly the emotional toll of seeking acceptance from family, with a focus on a mother's support for her transgender son and the impact of a father's non-acceptance.

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The website content presents a personal and emotional perspective on the struggles of transitioning and the importance of parental support for transgender individuals. It features a poem that expresses frustration towards a parent who fails to support their transgender child, juxtaposing this with the unconditional love of a mother who accepts her son. The article draws inspiration from Leonora Watkins' exploration of what it means to be a "real" man in the context of her transgender husband's transition. The author also promotes Watkins' article and their own poetry book, "Unreadable," as resources for further understanding and empathy towards the transgender experience. Additionally, the author provides a referral link for readers interested in joining Medium.

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  • The author conveys a strong opinion that parents should support their transgender children, emphasizing the harm caused by a lack of acceptance.
  • There is a clear stance that transitioning is a deeply personal journey that deserves respect and understanding, particularly from family members.
  • The poem expresses indignation at the birth father's inability to accept his son as a "real" man, suggesting that such attitudes are hurtful and unjustified.
  • The author endorses Leonora Watkins' article as a valuable resource for understanding the desires and challenges faced by transgender men.
  • By promoting their own book, the author positions "Unreadable" as a contribution to the discourse on

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What gives you the right

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Transitioning is hard I get it But what I don’t get is not giving your support to your child They tell you something so personal so wild To someone they look up to and trust You told them it wasn’t good enough What the fuck What gives you the right To dim their fucking light

My son is a transgendered male. His birth father doesn’t accept him for who he truly is. Instead, he barely tolerates him and is constantly telling him that he is not a “real” man. It breaks my heart to see my son go through this pain coming from his own blood.

I was inspired to write this poem after reading Leonora Watkins’ article titled My Wife Is Now My Husband: What Does It Mean To Be A Man? In this post, she is trying to understand why her transgender husband wants so badly to be a “real” man. It is an experience a lot of trans men go through. It is a must-read. Find her wonderful article below.

If you would like to see more of my work you can get my poetry book titled Unreadable on Amazon today. You can find it by clicking the link below.

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https://dmtakeshi.medium.com/membership

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