Summary

Effective communication is crucial for maintaining relationships and avoiding conflict, with emotional control being as important as the content of the message.

Abstract

The article emphasizes the significance of communication, particularly the role of emotions in interpersonal interactions. It illustrates the consequences of miscommunication through a fable of a lion and a tiger, where a lack of clear dialogue led to unnecessary conflict. The text suggests that a substantial 70% of communication is based on emotions, while the remaining 30% is the actual content. It stresses that without a positive mood, the message may become distorted. The article advises that to communicate effectively, one must be honest, calm, and sincere, and that controlling one's temper is key to active and constructive engagement rather than passive and destructive behavior. It concludes by encouraging readers to learn to communicate, manage their emotions, and not subject those they love to their worst moods.

Opinions

Communication is not just about what is said, but also about how it is said, with the emotional context playing a significant role.
Misunderstandings can lead to unnecessary and destructive conflicts, which could be avoided through better communication.
A good mood and a sincere tone are essential for successful communication.
Unchecked emotions and anger can turn a conversation into a confrontation.
Emotional self-regulation is a sign of maturity and respect towards others, especially those we care about.
The article promotes the use of an AI service, ZAI.chat, as a cost-effective alternative to ChatGPT Plus (GPT-4), highlighting its value proposition.

Communicate, will you?！

Communication is really important.

A fierce conflict broke out between the lion and the tiger, and in the end, both sides lost. When the lion was dying, he said to the tiger, “If you didn’t insist on taking my territory, we wouldn’t be in this situation.” The tiger was surprised and said, “I never wanted to take your territory, I always thought you were going to invade me.”

Communication is important!

However, driven by anger,

How can you stop first

Communicate sincerely?

So, I want to say

Good mood and atmosphere,

It is also indispensable.

70% of communication between two people is emotion,

30% is content. The mood is not right,

The content will be distorted.

With all the feelings and no good emotions,

To say more is just to vent.

You’re talking about communication, but you’re talking about something weird,

I don’t know if it’s communication or provocation.

He talks about communication, but his temper is bigger than anyone else’s,

I don’t know if it’s a conversation or a fight.

If you want to communicate, be honest.

Calm mood, sincere tone.

Cure your temper, is the person you love;

Who can stand your temper is the one who loves you.

If you can control your emotions, you are an active person.

When emotions control you, you are doomed to be passive.

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 on Unsplash

Learn to communicate, learn to adjust emotions,

Learn to control your temper.

Do not, put the worst emotions

To the one who loves you the most!

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