avatarAri Love

Summary

A new era of "Healed Men" is emerging, characterized by inner growth and emotional healing rather than traditional markers of success, leading to a shift in the dating landscape towards more meaningful connections.

Abstract

The article discusses the rise of a new type of man, dubbed "The Healed Man," who prioritizes personal growth and emotional healing over superficial attributes like wealth and physical appearance. This shift reflects a broader awakening among men and women who are seeking deeper connections and a more fulfilling life. These individuals are often found engaging in introspective activities such as meditation and journaling, rather than participating in the mainstream dating scene. The article suggests that as these "healed" individuals continue their journey of self-improvement, they will attract similar partners, leading to a collective "glow-up" and redefining the concept of love in society. The emergence of these emotionally mature and self-aware men and women is expected to result in balanced, supportive partnerships that exemplify true love and contribute to a higher collective consciousness.

Opinions

  • The author, Ari Love, emphasizes the allure of a man who has gone through a process of healing, considering it more attractive than traditional measures of a man's appeal.
  • Material wealth and physical attributes are deemed secondary to inner peace and emotional health.
  • The article posits that both men and women are experiencing a parallel awakening, moving away from materialism and shallow relationships.
  • Healed individuals are likely to be found in solitude, engaging in self-improvement activities rather than on dating apps.
  • The concept of "agape love" is introduced as a higher form of love that these healed couples will embody, moving beyond societal norms of love that are often superficial or transactional.
  • The author believes that the spiritual realm plays a role in bringing healed individuals together with their soulmates, suggesting a metaphysical aspect to these relationships.
  • The article predicts a significant shift in societal understanding and practice of love, with healed couples leading the way in redefining partnerships.

Collective Glow Up — There Is a New Type of Man On The Horizon

“There is nothing more alluring than a healed man.” — Ari Love

Photo by Jakob Owens on Unsplash

It’s been a while, so I am presenting another blog to put you on game. A new breed of men is on the scene. Of course, men with a strong presence, hefty bank accounts, big muscular shoulders, a six-pack of abs, seductive lips, a deep sexy voice, sparkling eyes (that look deep into the soul), and a charming smile are magnificent (whew, allow me a moment to regain my composure).

…Okay, I’m back.

The new type of man is (drum roll please) The Healed Man! Yeah, it’s true! It turns out that not only women need to find themselves. Now, allow me to clarify. You can be a wealthy, sexy ass healed man; there is nothing wrong with that. However, the things listed in the first paragraph are surface-level things that are unimportant in the grand scheme. Healing requires us to look inward, not outward. Material wealth and physical appearance are just bonuses.

Over the last couple of years, millions of men have suddenly awakened. They have discovered more to life than materialism, Instagram models, partying, random hookups, and surface-level relationships. Simultaneously, millions of women are doing the same. This has presented a new dating pool (woot woot!).

Now, here is the thing — most of these healing individuals are in isolation because they are still working on themselves. You won’t find them on Tinder or Bumble. Instead, you might find them meditating on the beach, journaling at a park, or traveling alone in Southeast Asia. Totally unbothered, passionate about life, and at peace with themselves. They are focused, determined, and clear-headed. They do not follow the herd, and they walk their own path. They are on a self-love journey, a path to rediscovery, and a meaningful existence (ooo la laa).

Is it just me, or does this type of person sound hot AF (like, yum)? These people have learned to embrace each moment with gratitude and awareness. They aren’t holding on to past relationships or negativity. They learned to forgive, and in doing so, they released the burdens of the past and rediscovered who they really are; outside of the bullshit we’ve been fed.

Shortly, these individuals will emerge from the shadows. There will be a massive, collective glow-up. When this happens, the healed, single individuals will manifest a lifelong partner (wink). But here is the thing — these healed men and women aren’t looking for unhealed, unhappy, beaten down, stressed out negative Nancy’s and Jim’s. Their energy will attract healed, passionate, empathetic, and goal-oriented partners.

If you are currently healing but desire a soulmate, don’t fret. Focus on recovery and your life purpose. Once the time is right, you will draw in the woman (or man) of your dreams. Together, you will be an example of what true love is. This dynamic duo is significant because love is watered down, misunderstood, and abused in our society. These healed couples will offer a new perspective and reinvent the meaning of love.

We will shift from the 3D reality, Matrix-driven love to agape love. These healed couples will be powerful yet balanced. There is no jealousy, envy, relationship baggage, or power struggles. Each awakened partnership will have a healed divine masculine and divine feminine. Each member will embrace this balance and support their counterpart. These couples will soon come into union as we ascend to the 5th dimension.

If you have done the work, understand your Spirit Team, Angels, and Ancestors are setting things up in the spiritual realm to bring you into union with your soulmate. Peace & love, Ari.

© Ari Love, 2023

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