Cockiness vs. Cock

Ladies want one but not the other…

So I have an issue with cocky people in a chat.

They annoy me.

Well, sometimes they annoy me. I’m sure every woman here or anywhere that’s has ever talked with a man (single, married, alien…) would tell you that at some point in her life had someone tell her something cocky.

Merriam-Webster defines cocky as boldly or brashly self-confident.

I’m finding it’s more of the younger men than mature ages that annoy me with their cockiness. Sorry younger gents. Maybe it’s because of my age. If I was 15 years younger, would I feel this way? If I was younger and the man was older, his experience and confidence could appeal to me.

But I’m an old gal. And I want what I want. Sincerity, friendly, fun, and someone who listens…and reads.

Yes! Reading. A lost art.

I get that people are busy and have information overload these days. But if I write an answer to a question you asked or provide something important about me, you should read it. Asking me the same question over and repeatedly isn’t just cocky but disrespectful.

Listening. Another lost art. Since we’re chatting over a text or app, listening is more akin to understanding here. If I say no pictures until I ask for them, please listen to me. Please understand that I want a chance to get to know you. Sending me your dick pictures and telling me how good you are with it is cocky. And I don’t want that.

Acting cocky. Everyone does it from time to time. But in a chat, is it needed? Self-confidence is fine. But brash statements about stamina or how many times you can come in an hour… gets quite old. Wait until you get to a bedroom. Then you can wow her! Underpromise and overdeliver.

Cockiness is also when you assume that you are the BEST thing that’s ever happened to this lady. That she will fall at your feet and worship you and your beautiful cock. That you deserve it!

You are not the best thing to happen to her. She has many men reaching out to her and telling her the same thing. So stand out. Be sincere. Realize that she has her choice of men. Be confident but not boasting about stamina. You will stand out.

So now that we know what cockiness looks like…what does Cock look like?

I shouldn’t have to explain that one.

Many ladies do like the pictures. I do. I think they are fantastic. No, I’m not looking at them for your size, nor width or general awesomeness!

No, I like them because they are a part of the body and a body is beautiful. Sex is natural and I like all parts of it. Including a dick. Hard, soft, big, small…I like them all.

I just don’t want pictures as a hello message or you telling me that I need yours. I’ll decide that. Not you. So leave the pictures until I say so. I will ask… so be ready.

So there is room for one in a chat but not the other. Be sincere, friendly, read and listen to what the other person is saying.

It helps you both in the long term.

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