Change One Letter in “The Patriarchy” to Reveal a Better Path Forward
(Hint: it’s not the obvious one of replacing the P with an M although that’s a great idea!)
When we say “the patriarchy” in singular form, we give it status. By making it a monolith we create the impression it can never be toppled. It becomes a boogeyman lurking in every shadow.
But when we examine historical examples or explore cultures in today’s world, it’s obvious that there are many different patriarchies, all of which limit individual freedoms.
The current patriarchy in the US sees governments deny women autonomy over their own bodies.
The current patriarchy in Russia has criminalized homosexuality and sent its men to die in an illegal war.
The current patriarchy in Saudi Arabia forces women to have male guardians who control their lives.
These patriarchies harm women (and many men) in different ways.
By referring to a specific nation or culture where men dominate as “this patriarchy” we divide to conquer. We weaken its power. So that we can focus on knocking it down.






