Car Talk With My Teen

Advantages of being locked in a moving vehicle

I must not make any sudden moves or look in her direction. I set the radio’s volume for distraction and background. I am waiting, waiting. I casually ask about her week coming up. I give no pressure to answer. Trapped, buckled in, and nowhere near our destination, we relax.

She chats about this semester’s classes, upcoming assignments, and work goals. Some concerns are shared. I fight the urge to give a solution without choices. We deliberate possible steps to address her concerns. Passing through this moment with a little more ease for her and a little less worry for me.

The engine’s hum, rhythmic vibration of a road needing paving, and soft, soothing musical environment supported my cherished car talk with my teen. Tomorrow we may be bantering, arguing, or deciding silence is what’s called for at that moment. Today I may take the long route to get there.

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