Can You See Your Reflection? (The Ongoing Unconditional Love Lesson)
A lot of power is behind this article. I have been asked to channel higher vibrational messages at this time. Thunder claps as I let words fly over the page. Many twin flames are wondering why reunion energies are shifting again from harmonious to challenging or distant. Energetic change is manifested through the understanding of this article. (A BIG CLAP of thunder sounded, and my 9-minute oven timer went off at 11:11).
There was a time when I couldn’t stand to look at myself in the mirror. My self-esteem bled through my surface-level smile. Everyone was a toxic individual to me. The anger I felt overwhelmed my intuitive gifts to the point of illusion delusion. One day, I stumbled upon shadow work and healing. While this part of my healing came naturally to me, I still learned many lifelong tools along the way.
Can you actually look at your reflection?
If you genuinely cannot look at yourself in the mirror and feel comfortable, you have many insecurities or fears that are blocking your sense of self-worth. These tend to come from brainwashing from previous moments in your life. Brainwashing is anything said or done to make you feel like the way you are isn’t okay. It drags you down and distracts you from your true self. The first and only step to recovery is to slowly chip away at these false pre-conditioned beliefs and peel back layers of the onion. Some of you may be at a point where you feel like there isn’t much left to peel. While it is possible, there is always more we can learn about ourselves. Give yourself compassion and love the way you need them.
A couple tidbits that I found extremely helpful during the initial times were:
1. Spending time with myself and getting to know who I am
Learn to love you and everything you’re capable of. Understand that you’re the whole deal. Good and bad. Light and dark While there is neither “bad” nor “good”, we get to choose what vibrational frequency we’d like to live on. We can’t face our shadows when we continue to hide. We can’t avoid lower vibrational emotions and expect happiness and love. This is a form of spiritual ego. I don’t believe anyone who says they know themselves and are enlightened but don’t put an ounce of work into their inner healing and then complain about “life’s” problems. Over time, you realise you were the cause of every last drop of your own suffering.
2. Practise forgiveness.
I’m still learning and transmuting this. Initially, I sat in front of the mirror and told my reflection, “I. Love. You.” It was the weirdest and most uncomfortable feeling I’ve ever felt. It was so foreign. There might be things you see that you don’t like. Your face might shift. You may see darkness or your demons, but keep telling yourself, “It’s okay. I love you. I got you.” Forgiveness isn’t a one-and-done deal, but self-acceptance will come faster and easier after personal acknowledgment.
This next download I’ll share was extremely helpful for me to let go of past resentments and emotional traumas. It curated visions and past-life memories for ancestral trauma when I thought I was making good progress in my healing. Listen to it at a time of day when your energy and magic resonate the most with you. For me, it is the mornings or very, very late at night. It depends on what kind of spiritual work I’m doing. Here is a link to the version I found most helpful. It is 7 minutes. There are words if you wish to speak them into the universe.
The prayer is Ho’oponopono (to make things right in oneself and in others). This Hawaiian goddess presents herself as support to relieve you of the burdens and resentments you carry from past painful memories. Speak and mean: “I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.” in moments you need emotional healing. Let all the repressed emotions come up without judgement. It is another phrase to say in the mirror if you feel comfortable doing so. Again, this is not a one-and-done deal. Keep practising.
3. Recognising self in others. Everything is a mirror.
This mirroring technique is one that occurs naturally. It is most easily explained by the twin flame dynamic that we are all attuned to. We, as a human collective, trigger one another to learn lessons and grow. Sometimes, we are vehicles to provide blessings or tests to others. A huge part of understanding is awareness. We attract the vibrational frequency we show the universe. For example, you are constantly around people who bully you and put you down. You don’t want to project the same onto others, but you internalise the hurt and resentment into anger and sadness. At times, fear is involved.
Emotions are frequencies. If you’re constantly allowing people to hurt you by not holding loving boundaries in your self-worth, the universe translates that to: you have not learned your lesson or have the love and care for yourself. That reflection is “acceptable” for you. This is how we fall into the victimhood complex. We believe we are suffering at another’s hands when we always have the power to change it. You could be trying to manifest so many things and upset that they’re not here yet, but you keep looping. Maybe some people understand exactly what you need or want, but you’re caught up in trying to control what it will look like and how it will get to you. You’re creating your own delays. If cycles or patterns start surfacing in your conscious mind, explore them and take steps to manifest the life of your dreams. You deserve your peace and your own love.
How twins use this method regularly:
In yesterday’s article, I mentioned the mindset of being more advanced than your twin. If this resonated with you, please stay open-minded about the fact that you, too, have more to heal. From my experience, I feel as though my twin has pride and ego to heal. Regardless of whether he does or not, I’m projecting my false pride and ego of feeling like I’m spiritually higher than him, having it trigger me, and allowing it to feed illusion. Upon doing soul work, I have not yet fully accepted our unconditional love. We mirror each other perfectly, but if I feel like he isn’t there yet, he’s not going to show me that side or do the work to get there. I learned to have compassion and love for myself while I peeled my hardest layers. Why wouldn’t I be able to heal that and support my twin instead of being frustrated or resenting the relationship (running)? Regardless of whether or not that’s the truth, how do we help, grow, and progress on our path to union?
If you’re going to take away one thing from this article, understand that everyone reflects back what you need to grow. This is done through unconditional love. Everything happens for you, not to you. Shatter that mindset. Because you are one and the same, if you aren’t conscious of what you’re mirroring, there are still unhealed wounds for you. A guidance download, I just received was to treat your twin with the love, kindness, compassion, and respect they never got from anyone else. They share the same fears, insecurities, and types of traumas that you do. If it’s abandonment, instead of bolting every time big issues come up, tend to the wound. Ask yourself what the need is and how you can intuitively help without shaking salt on the wound or throwing your loving boundaries out the window.
If you are ever confused or overthinking, please ask your higher vibrationals for help and guidance. They LOVE to help you. You are not a burden. They always want the best for you! If you need an answer, ask for it to be revealed in a way you will understand, and then be patiently aware. It’ll come.
As always, I send love and light your way. I hope you heal.
