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Summary

The article discusses the concept that true feelings and intentions are revealed through actions rather than words, emphasizing that unconscious behaviors speak the truth about a person's character and emotions.

Abstract

The narrative revolves around a conversation between a man and a woman, where the woman asserts that the man's consistent thoughtless and cruel actions, despite his verbal apologies, reveal his true feelings. She argues that while words can be easily manipulated, actions are a more honest reflection of one's inner state. The man's silence and eventual acknowledgment suggest a realization that his unconscious actions indeed betray his genuine sentiments. The article concludes by suggesting that while many desire the truth, they may not be prepared to face the reality it reveals, and it challenges readers to consider whether they are truly ready to hear and accept the truth as it is conveyed through actions.

Opinions

  • The author believes that actions are a more accurate indicator of a person's true feelings than words.
  • It is implied that people often say things they do not mean, but their actions are less likely to be deceitful.
  • The female character in the conversation is portrayed as perceptive and insightful, capable of seeing through the man's verbal apologies to his true intentions.
  • The male character initially struggles to understand how his actions can reveal truths he is not consciously aware of.
  • The article suggests that self-awareness is crucial in recognizing the truth in one's actions.
  • There is an underlying message that people may claim to want honesty but are not always ready to deal with the consequences of that honesty.
  • The piece encourages readers to reflect on their own actions and the messages they may be communicating without realizing it.

Can You Hear The Truth?

The truth speaks in our actions, choices, and decisions, and the aware ones can hear it.

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I was listening to a male and a female talking.

“I am sorry,” the male begged.

“No, you are not,” the female quickly throws back.

“How can you tell?”

“Because what you just did, is something you do all of the time. And I guarantee you will repeat your actions next week or next month. Thoughtlessness and cruelty are a habit for you.”

His silence pulled my ear, and I eased closer.

He sighed, then released, “I don’t know what else to say, but I am still sorry.”

“I am not sorry you did what you did,” she shared.

“Why not?”

“By your action, you are telling me the truth about how you feel.”

“What!” he almost shouts.

“You are aware of what you are saying, so lying is easy. You aren’t aware of what you did until after the deed is done. So your actions are speaking the truth. Your words aren’t.”

He glared at her in knotted brows, gulping his anger.

She went on, “many of us don’t think deep enough to realize that the truth doesn’t have to plan what to say. Lies have to.”

“So because I wasn’t aware of my actions, it tells you the truth about how I feel?”

“Yes,” she agreed. “Humans can’t plan the truth. The truth demands freedom. Many will try and put it in shackles and hide it. But someone always knows.”

He sighed heavily and said, “I refused to be in a relationship with someone who can read my actions and interpret them their way.”

“I thought you wanted the truth?” She questioned.

“Yea, I do,” he said, his thought seeming far away. “But if I am not aware of it, I will be in trouble,” he complains.

“How can you not be aware of something that you said you want? Or do you want your truth?”

A true story inspired this piece.

Kindness is involuntary for some of us. So are cruelty and thoughtlessness. The truth speaks in our actions, choices, and decisions, and the aware ones can hear it.

Can you hear the TRUTH?

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