Can People Who Have Loved Each Other Seriously Be Friends?
You can’t be friends with someone you’ve loved, because your heart will soften as soon as you meet them, you’ll fall for them as soon as you hug them, and if you look at them one more time, you’ll want to have them again.
Yes, people who have fallen in love are either lifelong or strangers! People who have loved you really can’t be friends after breaking up. It’s easy to become soft-hearted and fall in love again when you meet them. No matter how high the mountain is, there is still a path to climb; the sea is far away, but there is still a boat to cross. Only love, even if you have the heart, can’t calm down.
The advent of what love is? Buddha said: Waste!
From full of joy to complete despair, you finally exhausted all my patience and enthusiasm. I don’t want to see you again. The ninety-nine steps are love, and the last step is my dignity.
If I hadn’t added you on FB, if I didn’t know you, if I had kept my distance from you, wouldn’t there be no subsequent stories? When you think I am the most unreasonable, it is actually the time when I care about you the most. Because I care, I am confused and lose my self-esteem!
Maugham wrote in “The Veil”: “As far as I know, when people fall in love with someone and are not reciprocated, they often feel sad and disappointed, which then turns into anger and acrimony.”
If you can give me a point when I am unreasonable, I will be grateful and reflect on myself after calming down, and then be very gentle to you. Unfortunately, you only think about how to win me.
In any relationship, you have to be subdued and bow your head in turn to avoid getting separated. There is no natural match between people. It is just a person who knows how to tolerate and accommodate, and a person who knows when is enough. Real love does not need to be grand, but it must be willing to be ordinary and loyal to each other.
Once there is a gap between people, it is difficult to go back to the past. A person who values you will never put himself in a situation that may lead to losing you.
The moment someone left you, there must have been a moment when I felt that life would be better without you. At that moment, I will never be forgiven for the rest of my life.
It’s time to let go and make yourself feel better, happier, happier, and happier. That’s it for now, it would be rude to love again, but thank you for letting me understand what it means to be deeply in love, but worthless. This silent ending is really not worthy of the original encounter.
It doesn’t matter how good a person is, it’s important to be good to you. People who are really good to you are all in the details. People will lie, but details won’t. Love is a detail, and so is not loving. You still choose to do this even though you know that I will be sad, which only proves that I am not important in your heart at all, so why should I sink again and again because of unworthy people.
It doesn’t matter, I figured it out, it doesn’t matter whether you like it or not, love it or not, be here or not. That’s it, it’s fine to be quiet like now without any noise or interaction, and let everything end in this Spring Festival. There are some things that I am lucky to gain and lose my life. I choose to let go, not to forgive others, but to let myself go.
You said: “I don’t love you anymore, we can keep in touch and be friends in the future.”
I said: “I loved you so much that I couldn’t be friends. People who have loved each other are either lifelong strangers.”
The good things I did to you were all true, but you didn’t know how to cherish them, so we can only get together and part ways. I will not accompany you on the next journey. I am just a passer-by in your life. From now on, you must love yourself well and take care of yourself. Say goodbye and wish you all the best.





