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359f">Is he a tea man?</p><figure id="4ecb"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*IUv8KMPVHgMibbUX88jUcA.jpeg"><figcaption>Tea?</figcaption></figure><p id="669e">Or a coffee person:</p><figure id="b6e5"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*nv9wJGt8xXGRRsdw9yZc1Q.jpeg"><figcaption>Anyone for coffee?</figcaption></figure><p id="5785">Does he have a sense of humour? Can he tell a joke? Can he sing?</p><p id="dc64">Is he a dog person or a cat person?</p><figure id="92c8"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*fmMaEtOerN5am4OdSVEhLQ.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><figure id="a7eb"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*0w_gJ7OcJpkn_4OalMI8RA.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><p id="62c8">Can he figure out how to put two photos side-by-side on Medium?</p><p id="174a">How big a part do alcohol or drugs play in his life?</p><p id="3441">Is he humble?</p><p id="32c4">Does he understand that a conversation is about creating something together rather than giving each other “air time”?</p><p id="9f45">Can he keep a secret?</p><p id="3a20">Does he dress becomingly?</p><p id="11a3">Is he well-groomed?</p><p id="0221">Does he like to touch me and hold me when we’re out?</p><p id="56f2">Does he take care of his body?</p><p id="f1f9">Is he patient, tolerant and forgiving?</p><p id="acbf">Is he loyal? Will he support me against his family even if I’m wrong?</p><p id="8338">Is he honest?</p><p id="bf3a">Do I reach out and touch him, without even thinking about it?</p><p id="da3b">Does he kiss nice? Firm but tender?</p><p id="21cc">Do my eyes stray to his sexy butt?</p><p id="9b45">Does he look me in the eye?</p><p id="ff44">Is he a neat freak?</p><figure id="bfaa"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*YrBbW081sW4E7yZNy_ArVQ.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><p id="a706">Is he happy to clean the kitchen if I do the cooking?</p><p id="eb14">Is he good at it?</p><p id="0008">Does he like it?</p><p id="45ad">Does he have a healthy lifestyle?</p><p id="5231">Does he have brown eyes?</p><p id="0ae2"><a href="https://readmedium.com/happy-fucking-mothers-day-you-cruel-selfish-woman-e227e255604d#.baanvaw1m">Does he hate his mother too?</a></p><p id="e5b4">Does he like being outdoors?</p><figure id="59c3"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*h5rfQQXTuSr8G9CDPPF17A.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><p id="f454">Does he play the guitar

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?</p><figure id="7fb7"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*ByODifCCaiJQppHZsoPcVg.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><p id="d0c9"><a href="https://readmedium.com/embrace-your-perfection-83ad80573740#.fe83ddg19">Is he easy-going?</a></p><p id="cd1b"><a href="https://readmedium.com/i-fucking-love-my-body-bb2c0d65c435#.6kfaxklgl">Is he happy with his body?</a></p><p id="e402"><a href="https://readmedium.com/you-waited-twenty-fucking-years-to-tell-me-this-1ad8ef70a86b#.mo6z3yg66">Is he selfless?</a></p><p id="c904"><a href="https://readmedium.com/i-met-a-woman-389f306a5c1#.7e4g74ixp">Is he romantic?</a></p><figure id="998a"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*gdXp1oHIJXBXnMm8bQTDmQ.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><p id="8968">Where the fuck is he?</p><p id="85ed">If you liked this comment you might also like this love letter that I wrote about a year ago:</p><div id="bfb2" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/34c281675e99"> <div> <div> <h2>A Letter You May Never Read</h2> <div><h3>Destiny Is Our Own Unconscious</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*5rujoKBIegDTG1eBgwpfww.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="061b">or this one that I collaborated with my friend Mette on:</p><div id="1d21" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/838013fbdb5a"> <div> <div> <h2>Morten – A Love Letter 2u</h2> <div><h3>My Darling Morten,</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*jyiKB3wKoc2vEklRJoQQiw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="3d52">Click the image below to find and follow me on Twitter.</p><figure id="2821"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*SHGURvF-LBAQ9_v4Q0ENiw.gif"><figcaption><a href="https://twitter.com/augusta_khalil">I</a> haven’t figured out how to make the image smaller yet.</figcaption></figure><p id="6c02">Click the green heart below if you enjoyed reading this comment and would like to help others to find it:</p></article></body>

Is he a handyman?

Has he cracked open a book or two in his lifetime?

Does he understand the power of words in the bedroom?

How attached is he to that facial hair? Does he have a bicycle?

Does his sweat smell nice?

Is he sociable?

Can I really fall in love with anyone just by asking and answering these questions?

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Is he constantly evaluating me and our relationship?

Is he judging me?

Does he really imagine that one person can be “better” than another?

Is he evaluating “us”?

Is he evaluating me in terms of a “burden” or a “resource”? Financially? Emotionally?

Is he objectifying me, as some “thing” that can improve the quality of his life? Or does he see me as a many-faceted human being personifying the mystery of life itself?

Is he really asking himself if I will break him someday and leave him for dead?

Is he a calculating kind of person?

Can he challenge me intellectually?

Could he consider becoming a vegetarian someday? Or is he a confirmed meat-eater?