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But I learned to forgive. I learned to practise empathy and understand the 7-year-old, I knew she hadn’t intended to hurt Betsy. We never told her that Besty died but I am sure she would have been mortified and filled with remorse for a long time. That idea of empathy, the understanding that people have different values, priorities or ethics and behave in different ways has always helped me to forgive. I did not believe in carrying grudges, life was too short to be resentful.</p><p id="b8f5" type="7">That same idea of empathy and forgiveness was also the reason I stayed in abusive relationships</p><h2 id="1ccb">Abusers use forgiveness against you</h2><p id="ff7a"><i>“You are not being fair, people make mistakes!” “Come on, that was ages ago, have you still not forgiven me?” “I said I was sorry, what more do you want?”</i></p><p id="3167">These are some of the things my ex would say when I got upset about his behaviour. When you are in an abusive relationship, the concept of forgiveness can quickly become a weapon the abuser uses to keep you trapped. The idea that you must forgive them is like permission to continue with the abuse. Lundy Bancroft, who has worked with over 2000 abusive men writes:</p><p id="7386" type="7">“My clients demand forgiveness while continuing to insult, threaten, demand immediate responses, attend only to their own needs, and more.” (Why Does He Do That? p. 217)</p><h2 id="f5de">Forgiveness requires remorse</h2><p id="9234">I always thought forgiveness was unconditional. Although I am not religious, I was brought up going to church and reading the bible. The concept of forgiveness I had was influenced by the phrases and sermons I had picked up at a young age. <i>“Bear with each other and <b>forgive</b> one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. <b>Forgive</b> as the Lord forgave you.” </i>I thought it meant that you have to forgive everyone and anyone no matter what they had done. But there is one point I never knew: This idea of forgiveness is based on the assumption that the person I am forgiving shows remorse.</p><p id="c92b" type="7">Overlooked in common Christian understanding of forgiveness is the necessary part of repentance by the wrongdoer. John McKinley</p><p id="d22c">One of the most difficult concepts to understand after <a href="https://readmedium.com/13-signs-i-dated-a-narcissist-44d1db6ee3e4">my relationship with a narcissist</a> was that there are people who are incapable of feelin

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g remorse. He never apologised or cared about what happened to me. When he left, it was as if he had turned off a switch, his new victim was all that mattered and I never existed. Part of me was hoping for a long time that I would receive an apology. But I know that it will not happen. Although I understand now <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-a-narcissist-prepares-you-for-the-abuse-6383e7c92873">how abusive he was</a>, in his mind, he has done nothing wrong. <i>He does not seek forgiveness.</i></p><h2 id="5d37">Forgive yourself</h2><p id="46a4">I don’t think I need to forgive him to lead a happier and healthier life. I do not believe that forgiveness is part of the healing process unless it is directed at myself. <i>Forgiving yourself is key</i>.</p><p id="7171">Forgive yourself for not seeing it, for staying longer than you should have. Forgive yourself for moments you were weak and for moments when you might feel week again. Forgive yourself for ways you have behaved or things you have said. Forgive yourself for all the things you feel remorse over. Forgive yourself for never being able to forgive those that show no remorse.</p><h2 id="2210">More from Kara Summers:</h2><div id="b84b" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/do-you-feel-like-you-are-constantly-upsetting-your-partner-b1e9f5fcd6df"> <div> <div> <h2>Do You Feel Like You Are Constantly Upsetting Your Partner?</h2> <div><h3>Make sure you aren’t the one who is the real victim.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*7hsqJBnmFY3IjI7k)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="fc43" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/a-day-in-the-life-of-a-toxic-relationship-ffb487a213ec"> <div> <div> <h2>A Day in the Life of a Toxic Relationship</h2> <div><h3>Many don’t recognise narcissistic abuse when they are caught in the middle.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*ul7zBaj8k26PDM4k)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

21 Reasons You Need This AI Pin That Hangs On Your Shirt — Wait..What !!

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Hu.ma.ne (that is the name of the company) has been developing a device since 2018 that will have the power of the most powerful smartphone and will not require a screen.

Ahem.. Google and Apple…think quickly now !!

So, what’s this magic creation?

Enter Humane’s #AI Pin . Yes, it's very similar to a lapel pin that hangs on your shirt.

Let’s break down the coolness of this AI Pin.

Photo Courtesy of Humane.com

It’s packed with cutting-edge capabilities and combines:

  1. Photography
  2. Texting, and
  3. A laser projection system
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Its has a built in virtual assistant, AI Mic, powered by ChatGPT-like AI services, aims to reduce dependency on smartphones by providing a seamless web search and communication experience.

The founders, Bongiorno and Chaudhri, both former Apple employees, Humane brings a wealth of experience in hardware design and software engineering. Their commitment to a novel yet practical product led to the development of the AI Pin.

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The #AI pin is a revolutionary wearable device, and has captured attention with its unique features and potential to redefine personal technology and set to free you from the clutches of your smartphone.

Ohh and Open AI, the creator of #ChatGPT is one of Humane’s partners.

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How does it look…that is always the first thing we human’s look at.

The AI Pin’s design, resembling a brooch, prioritizes subtlety and comfort. Crafted from a single piece of aluminum, it weighs a mere 55 grams, making it inconspicuous yet unmissable. The device offers flexibility with optional clips for different clothing types.

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So, How do you use it without a screen ??

Easy peasy. Taps, hand wiggles, and a bit of voice magic — that’s how the AI Pin rolls. Double-tap for the camera, a palm wave for the laser projection system, and voilà! Your hand becomes a canvas with the Laser Ink Display, giving you a futuristic, interactive experience.

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How much does it cost

Available in the US from November 16, the Ai Pin starts at $699, with a $24 monthly plan. Humane has streamlined the ordering process through its website, Humane.center, offering additional services like music and syncing contacts.

Privacy and Ethical Considerations

Humane emphasizes privacy, ensuring transparency with a “trust light” indicating camera or microphone activation. The founders acknowledge potential ethical concerns and have set parameters to prevent misuse, promoting responsible use of the AI Pin.

As for the competition, Humane’s sailing smooth — no worthy opponents in sight.

Photo Courtesy of Humane.com

What’s next? Navigation and shopping features are on the horizon, along with tag-teaming with LG for homes and Volvo for cars. The Ai Pin’s open-source Android OS? A playground for potential developers.

The Potential Impact of AI Pin on Personal Technology

Although tech gurus “think” it may not replace smartphones entirely, it still had the potential to reshape how people engage with technology is intriguing.

But I think otherwise.

I mean, just the user interface, or the lack of it makes it appealing to many, especially people suffering from visual impairments.

Following are some realms, I think the AI pin will conquer without even a fight from the incumbents.

1. Everyday Photography

The AI Pin’s 13-megapixel camera and automatic enhancement algorithms make it suitable for capturing moments (hands free) in daily life. Users can preview photos on the device’s Laser Ink Display, offering a quick check of captured images.

Now, the cameras only get better (hint hint Apple)

Photo Courtesy of Humane.com

The AI Pin’s laser projection system enables users to project a visual interface onto their palm, providing quick access to information without the need for a smartphone screen. This feature enhances convenience for tasks like checking notifications, time, or weather.

2. Reducing Dependency on Smartphones

With features like web search and object identification, the AI Pin aims to lessen reliance on smartphones by offering a standalone device that can perform essential tasks. Say goodbye to those annoying ads you see on your screen.

Google, your ad revenue is in jeopardy !!

3. Fitness and Health Tracking

The Pin’s camera, coupled with upcoming AI features, will introduce health-related functionalities. For instance, the device can track daily protein intake by analyzing images of consumed food, providing users with a tool for fitness and nutrition monitoring.

Photo Courtesy of Humane.com

4. Fashionable Wearable Tech

Designed as a subtle accessory, the AI Pin aims to redefine wearable tech. Its brooch-like appearance and customizable options, such as additional “shields,” cater to fashion-conscious users who seek a blend of technology and style.

5. Seamless Integration with Daily Activities

Humane envisions the AI Pin as a constant companion that seamlessly integrates into daily activities. From social interactions to daily chores, the device’s lightweight design and intuitive controls aim to enhance user experiences without disrupting routines.

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6. Enhanced Productivity Through Laser Ink Display

The Laser Ink Display on the user’s palm provides a unique way to interact with information. Users can navigate menus, check options, and even control the device, offering a potential boost in productivity for tasks that require quick access to information.

7. Potential Educational Applications

The device’s capabilities, such as web search and language translation, could find applications in educational settings. Students and educators may benefit from the AI Pin’s ability to provide quick access to information and language assistance. It will definitely make a meaningful impact for students with special needs.

8. Travel Companion

With features like international roaming, GPS, and language translation through its mic, the AI Pin could serve as a handy travel companion. Users can navigate unfamiliar places, communicate in different languages, and capture travel moments with ease.

9. Integration with Smart Home and Vehicles

Humane’s plans to collaborate with LG for homes and Volvo for cars suggest potential integrations. The Ai Pin could become a central control device, allowing users to interact with smart home devices or access information related to their vehicles on the go.

No longer will you need to browse through Netflix to add movies you like to your list. You may be able to just tell the AI pin to do that for you in a sentence. Just the handsfree feature and the capability to project on almost any surface near you, can help transform the industries

10. Retail

The AI Pin can enhance the retail experience by providing quick access to product information through its visual interface. Retail staff can use it for inventory management, and customers can receive personalized product recommendations or access reviews.

Photo Courtesy of Humane.com

11. Healthcare

In healthcare, the device’s hands-free communication and camera capabilities can be utilized for patient care. Doctors or nurses can quickly access patient records, take images for documentation, and communicate with the virtual assistant for medical queries. Or treat a patient who needs urgent care but speaks a different language.

12. Education

The AI Pin’s educational applications may include language translation for multilingual classrooms, quick access to reference materials, and interactive lessons using the laser projection system. It could serve as a tool for both students and educators.

13. Tourism and Hospitality

The device can be a valuable tool in the tourism and hospitality industry. Tour guides can use it to provide information, and hotel staff can streamline communication for guest services. Its translation feature aids in overcoming language barriers.

14. Manufacturing

In manufacturing settings, the AI Pin can assist workers in accessing manuals or instructional videos hands-free. The camera can be used for quality control, and the device’s rugged design ensures durability in industrial environments.

15. Entertainment and Events

The Ai Pin can offer a unique way to enhance entertainment experiences. Attendees at events can use it for interactive experiences, and performers can integrate it into shows for dynamic visual displays and audience engagement.

16. Logistics and Warehousing

For logistics and warehouse operations, the AI Pin’s camera can be employed for barcode scanning and inventory management. The hands-free communication feature facilitates coordination among team members.

17. Automotive

In the automotive industry, the AI Pin’s integration with vehicles can provide drivers with hands-free access to navigation, communication, and entertainment. It could also serve as a tool for automotive technicians during repairs. No more tickets for using a your cellphone for maps while driving…yes, I said I was using maps.

18. Fashion and Design

The device’s fashionable design makes it suitable for the fashion and design industry. Designers can use it to capture inspiration on the go, and it can be incorporated into fashion shows for creative presentations.

Photo Courtesy of Humane.com

19. Real Estate

Real estate professionals can use the AI Pin for virtual property tours, hands-free communication during property inspections, and quick access to property information. The camera can capture details for documentation.

20. Finance

In the finance sector, the device can be used for secure and hands-free communication during client meetings. Financial advisors can access information on the go, and the camera can be utilized for identity verification.

21. Agriculture

The Ai Pin’s durability and hands-free functionality make it suitable for agriculture. Farmers can use it to access agricultural databases, capture images for crop monitoring, and communicate with team members in the field.

In a nutshell, the founders want the AI Pin to be everyone’s buddy. Versatile, easy to control, and stylish — it’s the tech everyone didn’t know they needed. Welcome to the future, where your lapel is smarter than your phone.

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