Body Dysmorphia and Fad Diets: Trends Which Ruined My Teenage Era
Why did I begin writing?
When I was fifteen, just fifteen I developed a condition called body dysmorphia which turned into anorexia. This is the main reason Why I keep posting stories about the negative effect of social media, such as Instagram and TikTok, on the mental health of young teenagers. I don’t want anyone to go through the pain and suffering, that hit my family and me.
I hope my story helps anyone who is struggling with their looks and weight.
Body dysmorphia can have a significant impact on a person’s mental health, relationships, and quality of life. It can lead to feelings of shame, embarrassment, and low self-esteem, and may also increase the risk of developing depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions. It can affect anyone, regardless of gender or age, but it is especially common among teenage girls. This is because teenage girls are often exposed to societal pressures and unrealistic beauty standards through media and peer interactions.
My story
At just fifteen years old, I started to play volleyball for the first team at my school. I was the smallest and skinniest on the team, but strong and capable. Now and then they would throw some comments of shade at me such as oh you are super skinny you need to gain weight or you look like you came from Ethiopia. You guessed it right, I started to eat more and more but stayed skinny until I was seventeen. By that time, Instagram became a big thing in school. I gained some weight and it started to show, now I was getting comments such as you look like a pig, you looked better before and my confidence became even lower.
I used to watch girls on Instagram with perfect bodies and faces, having the right curves and being in the spotlight. I started feeling very pressured to look like a certain body type, which woke up feelings of dissatisfaction. I never had big boobs, but I was bigger in my bum area, and because of that they called me a penguin, a duck, or a pig. The situation caused a significant impact on me, developing at first body dysmorphia, later I stopped eating and ended up in a hospital and getting diagnosed with anorexia.
My family and I spent two years in and out of hospitals, visiting different doctors until one day I decided to change my friendship group and delete my Instagram account. I had to learn it the hard way, but you don’t have to!
Social media can have a significant impact on body dysmorphia, particularly among teenagers and young adults. Social media platforms like Instagram and TikTok are often filled with images of seemingly perfect bodies, which can create unrealistic expectations and standards for what a person’s body “should” look like. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity about one’s own appearance, and contribute to the development of body dysmorphia.
I used to think everything that is promoted on social media is true and it’s safe. Now that I am twenty-five, I realize and can detect influencers promoting unhealthy practices such as extreme calorie restriction, over-exercising, and promotion of miracle diet pills and powders and other supplements.
It took me a long time to learn, we aren’t supposed to fit into a certain size and have a certain body type. The clothes are supposed to fit us!
It’s important to remember that influencers are not necessarily experts in nutrition or mental health and that their advice may not always be appropriate or safe for everyone. People should always consult with a healthcare professional before making significant changes to their diet or exercise routine.
Recognize the difference between healthy lifestyle choices and disordered eating patterns.
I hope my story helps anyone who is struggling with their body shape and size. Loving yourself at any size means accepting your body and treating it with kindness and respect, regardless of its size or shape. It’s important to recognize that beauty and self-worth aren’t defined by a number on a scale or the size of clothing you wear. Learning to love yourself at any size can take time and effort, but it is a powerful and empowering practice that can lead to increased self-confidence, improved mental and physical health, and greater overall happiness and fulfillment. Please, don’t lose your teenage years as I did. It's important to remember that everyone's body is unique and there is no one "ideal" body type. Rather than focusing solely on weight or appearance, it's important to prioritize overall health and well-being through balanced nutrition, regular physical activity, and other self-care practices.
Keep shining. You are already perfect!
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