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Summary

The content reflects on the significance of the Black Lives Matter movement through the lens of personal relationships, emphasizing the support of a partner who acknowledges that "Black Wives Matter."

Abstract

The author, Marla Bishop, a relationship coach and writer based in London, recounts her experience preparing for a Black Lives Matter demonstration while reflecting on the domestic life she shares with her partner. Despite the daily nuisances of household life, such as the untidiness and forgetfulness often associated with him, she is deeply touched by his words of affirmation. As she departs for the local demonstration, her partner's comment, "Black Wives Matter," resonates with her, highlighting the intersection between personal relationships and broader social activism. This personal anecdote illustrates how intimate support and acknowledgment can extend to larger societal movements.

Opinions

  • The author finds her partner's domestic habits annoying yet acknowledges the deeper connection they share through his understanding and support of the Black Lives Matter movement.
  • There is a sense of pride in the author's feminism and other forms of activism, which she actively participates in across London.
  • The partner's ability to transcend everyday irritations with a heartfelt message of support showcases the importance of allies in social justice movements.
  • The author values the demonstration of solidarity from her partner, considering it a significant moment that touches her heart and validates her activism.
  • The author's connection to the Black Lives Matter movement is personal and is reinforced by her partner's recognition of the importance of Black women in the context of the movement and beyond.

Black Wives Matter

His words touch my heart

Photo by Clay Banks on Unsplash

He can be clumsy and oafish

A real man’s man

caps left off the toothpaste,

lids from tea and coffee canisters,

Toilet seat up, socks everywhere

and milk forgotten out again

Annoying as hell to

a woke woman who prides

her feminism and other isms

which take her on trips

across London in support

of the underdog

But today his words

touch my heart as I head off

to a Black Lives Matter

demo in our local park

“Take care and remember,

to me Black Wives Matter.”

©️marla bishop 2020

Marla Bishop is a relationship coach and writer: On medium.com she is the creator of Lilith and an editor of The Bad Influence. She lives in London UK with her family. You can follow her here.

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