Beyond Resolutions: The New Year Feeling
As the year flowers with a new beginning, tiny fragments of ice and snow from winter still lurks in the sky.
People huddled up in the comfort of their own homes, enjoying the start of a new month, getting together with family, and — most importantly — making plans for the next twelve months.
From the balcony, I could see my neighbor scribbling and murmuring something to herself.
I watched with great interest to see what in the world was keeping her so absorbed. Alas! It was a long list of resolutions for the new year:
Quit up smoking.
Cut drinking habits
Eat healthy meals
Exercise more frequently
Learn the violin.
What!
The violin?
Creep! She banged her windows and screamed.
Okay, so perhaps I am.
She took piano lessons for, I think, less than three months.
How could I have forgotten?
My afternoon naps were traumatized beyond healing.
I should be inspired…No thanks
From observing several people, I can say for sure that there’s a mental shift that occurs during this season. A lot of people with new goals, new ambitions, aspirations, ideas for jobs, and skill.
That skill you started working on in the middle of the year — what happened to it?
We delude ourselves into feeling some kind of “new energy” as the year begins. We feel the need to embark on a new journey; abandon the old.
My neighbor most likely got so bored with her piano lessons that she tried to harness the enthusiasm of a new year to start something fresh.
It doesn’t work that way.
At the end of it, the results are short lived.
We would have tested a whole lot for the every new year, and eventually abandoning them before the midway mark.
So, envision the current year as an improved continuation of the prior year’s work.
Building strength only through consistency and tenacity.
Happy New Year






