Being Doing Having

The Secret To Manifesting Your Desires And Living A Life Of Authenticity

So much of my life I have spent living in reverse.

And this has brought me a lot of pain and is tied to my inability to achieve the things that I want and desire.

It has brought me so much confusion chasing the mirage of desires that have been inauthentic to me.

In the hopes that would bring me some sort of fulfillment or fill that void in my life.

And the truth is I have been having minimal success with this method, and I am honestly quite f*cking fed up with it.

“If you try and do life in reverse, suffering is inevitable” — Sadghuru

Until I discovered a new way, a universal truth, and a key principle in our ability to manifest. And bring into our life what is authentic to us.

A key principle that will allow you to change your life right now, and start living the “right way”.

In this article, I am going to cover what living in reverse is and how we can live the right way.

Life Is Based On Cause And Effect

Cause and Effect: For every Cause, there is an effect, and for every Effect, there is a cause.

It is the cause that should be the focus in life, not the effect. The effect is merely a “consequence” of the cause.

Yet what everybody does (including me) is focus on the effect first.

“Life happens like this — Being Doing Having. First being, then doing, then having.” — Sadghuru

When we focus on the outcome first we become “blind” to the necessary cause that will create the effect.

This whole approach is based on separation with our goals being something that is separate from us.

The separation naturally creates a pain that is within us, a pain that the ego mind uses to drive us forward toward the attainment of our goals.

Which creates a tunnel vision that is solely based on the outcome. Because it is the achievement of the outcome that will finally neutralize the pain.

However, this is a self-perpetuating cycle of us never achieving our goals.

Simple because we are never being the person that will actually create that outcome in our life.

The uncomfortable truth is, the future doesn’t exist. The only thing that exists is RIGHT NOW, the present moment.

So to create any desired outcome in our life first we have to be the thing that will naturally bring that into our life.

“Your problem is first you want that, so you will do this, and then it will become this” — Sadhguru

Being Doing Having

“You learn to be in a certain way, So you will get certain things, and certain things will happen out of it”

— Sadhguru

To be the cause of an effect in our life first, we must identify what we are trying to create.

For help, you can think in the contexts of health, wealth, and relationships.

Let’s say we want to create a wealthy lifestyle filled with millions of dollars. Or a healthy relationship with a high-quality life partner.

First, we must become clear on this.

The next step is authenticity, what is authentic to us?

See, so much of what we want is actually what “other people want”.

And if we go through life seeking out the desires of other people, it is no wonder that we never actually get what we want.

So that is why it is so important to identify what is authentic to us, what is our authentic desires.

Once we are able to identify what it is we desire, and if it is authentic to us, then we can begin the process of being.

Being The Cause For The Effect

Life is based on attraction, and you will only attract to you what is of the same vibration.

So it is incredibly important that we match the vibration of what we desire by being the thing that would create it.

I don’t know about you, but I have become so unbelievably tired of going through life searching for things that are outside of me.

Whether that be in friends, relationships, or business success.

So I have changed my approach. Now my sole focus is being and embodying that which will create and attract the things that I desire into my life.

Not searching for anything outside of myself

And that is the simplicity of what being is.

Coming back to the present moment, coming back to right now, and creating the frequency of the person you desire to be.

Embodying the habits, traits, behaviors, and skills that are needed.

And putting all your focus on the present moment, doing what is necessary right now, that will create the outcome you desire.

To Conclude:

Searching for things that are outside of ourselves is how we live life in reverse.

This inevitably leads to us never feeling fulfilled and never achieving the things that we desire.

And even if we do achieve the things that we “desire” they are short-lived simply because they are inauthentic to us.

When we focus solely on the cause for the effect and pour our absolute devotion into being the person that will attract our desires into our life.

We come back to the present moment, we discover our authenticity, unique vision, and life.

And subsequently, we create the life of our dreams as a natural consequence.

It has taken me some time to realize this truth and it is my hope that it is able to help you as well.

Much love.