Behaviors That Prevent Twin Flame Union — Part 2
If you don’t trust yourself, you will drive your twin flame away from the union

In the first part of the series of behaviors that prevent us from uniting with our twin flame, I examined the consequences of our obsession with our twin flame and our distrust of our intuition. In this section, we’re going to dig a little deeper and take a look at the behaviors that go on inside of us that we are unaware of.
One of the most critical things in the twin flame journey is trust. If we do not trust ourselves, our development, and the path we walk, we cannot set our course steadily. When we do not trust the route that the map gives us and try to reconstruct the way ourselves, we can get lost, get far from our destination, and delay reaching the destination.
Sometimes when trying to get somewhere, I don’t trust the path the map gives me. This map takes me somewhere, but at the end of the road, I say I’m not quite sure where I want to be. I enter different streets. Even though I have a strong desire to go back, I keep moving forward. And in the end, although I am unsure, I see that it has brought me to the place I want.
When I find the place I am looking for, all my doubts of 5 minutes ago disappear and I say I was worried for nothing and I feel relieved. This is how trust works in the twin flame journey. The divine system sends us signs to accustom us to the journey. What we will do is get our approval and continue on the road with confidence. Signs do not form the basis of our inner intuition. They just reassure us by saying yes, you feel/think right.
You don’t trust your twin flame journey
Not believing in ourselves and our soul’s journey is almost the same as betraying our soul. This may sound cruel, but when we don’t trust our spirit, it is easy for us to constantly sabotage ourselves and question our worth.
We begin to live according to other people’s wishes to affirm our worth. It is normal not to be able to find our own inner compass. Because we have experienced many turning point events in our lives and met people. There is a bit of a lesson we learn from everyone and everything we experience. That’s why we sometimes compare ourselves to other people’s lives and believe that only one, far from diversity, is the right one.
But if you are progressing on the twin flame journey, you are also learning to merge with your soul every day. If you can say I am on a twin flame journey, you have heard your soul’s call to you and now you are trying to be willing to choose your heart instead of your ego.
Your soul has called out to you. He reached out to pull you out of the darkness you were in. And you took the hand of your soul and stepped into a larger version of yourself. Here we need to move forward confidently. Because the person who hears the wake-up call once is at a very different point from their old self.
The reason we don’t trust ourselves is that this journey requires a lot of inner work. It is true that the journey is difficult, but a clean-up is always necessary to move forward. When you first buy a house, can you stay in it without having it cleaned? Sometimes you may even need to repaint the house. What is difficult for us on the twin flame journey is what we experience as we try to cleanse our souls and come out of the darkness created by the ego.
You blame your twin flame by listening to the inner delusions of your ego.
The mind is always working with the fear frequency to keep us in a safe space. Because the feeling of fear makes us more resistant to the new breakthroughs we want. That’s why the mind wants us to stay in our conditioned version, not our original version.
When we go to our core self, a great energy comes out, I feel it several times a day. Because these intense emotions are so high, they can also be confused with heavy emotions such as anxiety and fear. It is precisely in these intense and fragile moments that the mind uses our fears to distract us from our twin flame. And it triggers our traumas by writing us stories.
This is something my mind does to me often. It catches me where I fear the most, making me vulnerable first. Then, deepening my fear, he writes some anxious scenarios. If I obeyed the anxieties of my mind, I would have shifted to a lower vibrational energy, whereas I needed to stay in the pure vibration of unconditional love.
When the mind tempts us against our twin flame, we cannot believe it. Because we know ourselves first and therefore our twin flame. Everything that is our twin flame (including shadows) we also have. The twin flame journey is a program sent to us to unravel our souls. But the mind cannot accept it. The mind does not want us to see our weaknesses and solve them. Where we are vulnerable is a great weakness for the ego. And he continues to put all the blame on our twin flame in order to cover these weak places.
What we can actually do is simple. But here we need to do intense voluntary inner work in order to be able to break our ego and step into the heart area. It is not easy to get rid of the mind after years of being kneaded by the fears of the mind. But once you do, the rest will be easier.
Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link





