Be your own CEO ! Get your Will Power
Distractions, laziness, desires, depression. Inefficient attempts, unsuccessful initiates. In fact, not unsuccessful because it doesn’t even born. But having big goals. Big goals that you couldn’t achieve … yet.

If your life basically a mess, or toward a mess and if you want to be able to get rid of it. You must manage them all. Because no one will make it for you. You are the one who needs to manage your life and stuff. However, you just don’t want to, right? Well, there are a few reasons for it.
First things first, I’ll explain the answer before the reason itself. You have to be your own CEO to be able to manage your tools in your life. You have to take your freedom on yourself. If you are not capable to manage yourself, you cannot manage the tools in your life.
Freedom
Freedom, liberty, independence. Lots of words that help us to achieve. But,
What is freedom?
Okay here is Oxford definition;
1- [uncountable, countable] Freedom (of something) the right to do or say what you want without anyone stopping you
2- [uncountable, countable] The state of being able to do what you want, without anything stopping you

All right, We have the first definition. We are all free in our actions. We are independent and we are free to make our own decisions. We are free to do or say what we want. But what about the second definition? We think that we are free but, are we?
Do we really do what we want without anything stopping us? Maybe, Distraction is a barrier on your way. Laziness is a barrier, and mostly desire is a huge barrier to your actions.
If any of these is a barrier in your action, if you find yourself on Instagram while you are willing to study, or if you sleep before you finish your job while you want to finish. It means that you don’t have your freedom. Sorry for you.
You do not manage your body. Your desire does. You don’t give decisions. Sorry but, you are weak!
However, you can be strong. You are the owner of this body. You are the manager. You make the decisions and you have the power to get control of yourself. If you would get full control of your body, you can achieve any goals in the world. You have to be your own CEO before you become a CEO of anything or achieve your true-self.
Why You have to be CEO of yourself?
If you can’t control yourself, you don’t get used to deal with boring challenges. Every challenge comes with ease. You have to be able to catch the ease and stand for a challenge. You should not give up when the challenge hits you. To be able to reach it, you have to make practice so you can handle this part on yourself. If you just broke when challenges hit you, you will not go any further. It can also be multiple fail cycles… So it can be really hard to stand. The most effective way to be able to stand against these challenges is being prepared by yourself.
If you become a CEO of yourself, it means that you are going to fight with distractions. So, It will make you strong. You will hit the challenges before the challenges hit you but the desires should not have any power on you. The only power should belong to you. To be able to reach it, you have to fight with yourself. When you want to do something, you should. Nothing should stop you and when you just don’t want to do something, you should not. Here your wish is important. If you want something with desires, you should ask yourself, is this what you really wish for? So, you need to create the power of your true desires.
When you don’t want to drink something, you shouldn’t be able to drink. When you don’t want to eat, you shouldn’t be able to eat. If you don’t want to sleep you need to be able to stay awake until you fell down.
Please don’t get me wrong, I am not telling you to fell down. I never fell down before because I didn’t want to stay this much awake before, but if I were, I would fell down. I mean here you should have the power that if you want something, you should be able to. Nothing can stop you.
More conveniently, you must be decided as bigger as your goal. If you aim at the top of the world, your will power must be top of the world too.
You should be able to stand to hunger even till you die if you want (but you don’t want this of course. Here I want to tell that you should have this much will power)
However, if your goal is not big that much, you don’t have to be this much decided. You should be restrained by yourself and your goals.
Remember Who is The Boss
You should know that will is something like a muscle. It will grow as you work on it and also it is something like expandable. You have to charge it when you used it too much. You need to work on it according to your capacity. You should know your weight and fight with yourself according to your level of will power.

If you have weak will power, you can start with easy behaviors. Like drink water when you wake up and repeat it for 3 days. You can put this kind of easy goals. The point of behavior here is it’s not hard to apply, and no disturbing consequences to realize. You don’t have to use effort to drink water. And it won’t disturb you. It’s just about remembering so It will grow your will power.
If you have average will power you can apply something like sleep cycles. Going to bed early, or specific time can be useful. Here the point is application is not hard but there are disturbing consequences for you. The Comfort Zone has started to a little bit shake. The fight has started. Will is going to grow more.
If you have strong will power, you need to stand against yourself. You can directly talk with your brain and tell that ‘’ I am the boss here. I make the decisions, If I want something, you have to apply it. You have no other choices.’’ And try your hardest. You can apply hard to do and hard to consequences issues. Like, getting up in the middle of a night and stay awake for like at least half an hour. It’s disturbing to apply and has disturbing consequences. Besides, you can put harmless punishments against if you can’t move by yourself.
After a while, you’ll start to be your own CEO. You are going to get control, and life is going to become much easier. You are going to face challenges with appetite and start to get enjoy failing just because you get experience. Then you’ll start to not falling down and you are going to see that your success level increase and achieve your goals one by one.
You’re welcome. I don’t know is it easy to read but very hard to apply. It will take time, you should know that nothing (almost) happens in one night but, decisions can. If you decide to become a CEO of yourself, you need to effort on it to reach it. However, the rest in rapid succession.
I believe you, only if you believe in yourself.
I told you about reasons too, reasons why you don’t want to act. I’ll examine them in another article. See you soon.
Love,