Be Happy With What You Have While Working For What You Want In Life
A good sense of humor will amplify what you acquire.
Not many people do just that.
Most feel miserable with what they have. They think what they are working for to get will most probably change that.
I am going, to be honest with you. You are just going to add on more trouble than what you already bargained for. And that is not okay under any circumstance.
Please for the love of God, Stop! You do not deserve that.
Your mindset matters above all else. Because it is the significant thing that will amplify what you gain.
If you receive more, you will feel happier. If you receive less, it does not matter whether you got less when you thought you deserved more.
Expecting less would always help you turn that frown upside down.
I say this because I live by this code. And no matter what failure, setback, or hurdle I face. I know that the battle might have been lost.
But the war still rages on, and I can use this opportunity(failure) as a trampoline to bounce back showing life who’s boss.
There have been many times in life, lol I can not even count that I failed. Actually, if I had to give you a number, it would be in the thousands.
When you fail thousands of times, you learn to add joy every time you fail. Surely the first few defeats crush your ego. That is a necessary step in becoming self-aware.
Once you gain that zest, I believe there is no going back. And there is no need to. Because you will have gained something that will always spark joy when you fail.
I say this because you will have learned that no matter what the loss, or defeat. You know that standing back up, and riding the horse again is as easy as thinking about it.
It would have become your new normal!
What if I told you that you already have done all of this!
Yes, you have done what I have documented earlier. You have done that time and time again in your life. And that is having the courage to face the music, regardless of the challenge.
It was always inside of you. But now you know how to use it, and when you need to bring it outside of yourself.
Remember that most things in life can change with the flick of a switch, that switch is like a double downer.
Do you want to know what those are?
Well, they are humor and humility!
You might be thinking eh?
It is because when you use these together, life no matter what the struggle or strife just becomes so much sweeter. There have been so many times, I was in pain. I felt like I would die.
Do you know what helped me during those times?
Well, it was dear old humor! And perhaps humility to spare as well.
I really wish that they taught this to more students in school. As it is one of the best things teachers can equip their children with to face their future with zest.
And that is using humor, the ability to amuse yourself with whatever comes to irk you.
Whereas humility the ability to remain modest regardless of whatever aims to down you.
When you apply these two things in your journey towards greatness. I say you will never feel alone. These two are the most powerful things that will keep you occupied even when the chips are down.
Even if you have nothing to do, you will always find ways to amuse yourself and keep yourself occupied.
What you have with you is a way to find hope. And these two give you just that.
Now you know, don’t you?
Brace everything with humility, and embrace wherever life might take you with humor. Read a good book about jokes, keep it beside your bed. And read one joke every day.
When you do read them aloud, share them with the world. And in times of hardships, reflect on them with humor.
And you will be fine. Trust your process, and keep putting in the work that aligns with your values. Somethings take their time, and you will achieve them at your own pace.
Remember to take breaks in-between. You will reach your destination when you are ready to face it with zest.
Thank you so much for reading! ❤️
Stay blessed and stay safe!
Peace.