BBLs Are a HOT Topic Again, But Not For The Reason You Think

Men weigh in on how they feel about BBLs, but are they being honest?

The other day as I was in the minefield called social media, I noticed there were videos made by men detailing their experiences with women who have BBLs(Brazilian Butt Lift)

I was totally shocked by what they had to say, but if you’d like to hear it yourself, here is the video:

To sum this up, women who are getting the BBLs, develop a very unpleasant odor “down there”. The man in the video said he met a nice looking woman and decided to take her home — and when she got naked and twerked in front of him, he smelled something TERRIBLY bad. He of course, politely told her to shower yet still had sex with her.

There is a clip within the video, of a woman explaining what her brother said about BBL women. He and friends said it is a “funky situation” to put it politely.

I did not know this was a thing, but I did write up an article about the BBL craze and the many problems associated with it. However, this was not something I knew was even going on. Being that it is happening though, I decided to do a bit more digging into the butt crack of the web to learn more (pun intended)

According to a recent Essence article, “1 in 15,000 to 20,000 BBL procedures end in death” and still there are those who are left with bruising, internal bleeding and then…the foul odor.

“Some women, including those who have undergone BBLs, said that an enormous backside is simply more challenging to keep clean after using the restroom.”

Some articles I found online mentioned that the reason for the smell is the extra bacteria and of course the fact that there is more to “reach around” now, so the key thing to do is to invest in a bidet or be VERY diligent in wiping yourself and keep up with daily bath and shower routines.

The conversations in the comment section went a bit left, but a bit deeper as it tends to do. Let’s tackle each of these points, shall we?

A woman with a BBL funk is a woman who never knew how to clean herself to begin with

Now, this a is a comment I’ve seen often online.

Apparently, these women are focusing more on hair and makeup — but body hygiene is often neglected. This is not cool, because these men are telling on these BBL women.

Wives are probably happy about this, because they think their men will never leave them now for a BBL woman

This was perhaps the dumbest comment I’ve ever seen. It is a huge reach. I don’t think married women were thinking this at all, as it was a dude who brought this up on Tik Tok.

If a man cheats, it may be with a woman with a butt or no butt at all, or in some cases — another man. BBLs wouldn’t factor into it all the time.

Men will play with the BBL, but they not taking “it” to a parent teacher conference or home to mom

This comment was interesting because it proves that a guy WILL for sure sleep with a woman with a large derriere, and he may even entertain their relationship for a while, but they will treat her like a toy.

The guy in the video above went so far as to say, he will “play with a woman’s BBL”, but when he marries a woman, it will be a simple woman with not so much work done to her body.

The truth is that he is right.

Women for decades have reshaped their bodies, contorted their faces, done insane workouts, and now have plastic injected into their meat — all for the sake of competing. Some would argue that it is vanity, and that women are just competing with other women for the sake of…competing.

The last time I checked, any competition or race has a prize at the end. So what prize are these women aiming for at the end of the day? Competing just for vanity’s sake doesn’t seem plausible to me, but what does make sense, is they are competing for attention.

The BBLs have gotten bigger and more ridiculous due to this attention seeking culture.

It is not just the foul odor that is the issue, but the thigh butt ratio is off, making these women look like “built airpods” or “ants”, as people are calling them. These are harsh names for a body that is being expensively purchased.

The bottom line is that for women, it is hard to love ourselves when we are literally built for desire. When we feel we are not, we go through drastic changes, but plastic surgery shouldn’t be one of them. There are workouts that help to give you the desired shape you want, just not as quickly as you may like.

The payoff is that you won’t have to spend thousands of dollars and smell like death.

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