Summary

An American's experience traveling in Europe reveals unexpected realities, challenging common misconceptions about the continent's uniformity, historical preservation, and linguistic homogeneity.

Abstract

The author, an American living in Europe, shares their journey of discovering the continent beyond the stereotypes. They address misconceptions such as the homogeneity of European cities, the notion that everything in Europe is ancient, the limited view of Europe as only Western countries, and the assumption that all Europeans speak English. The narrative emphasizes the diversity of cultures, the coexistence of historical and modern architecture, the richness of Eastern European destinations, and the importance of learning local languages for a deeper travel experience. The article encourages exploring less-traveled paths to uncover hidden gems and gain a more authentic understanding of Europe.

Opinions

The author initially romanticized Europe based on news and media, only to find a more complex reality upon living there.
European cities are diverse and cannot be generalized, much like the varied experiences across different states in the USA.
Europe is not stuck in the past; it also boasts modern architecture alongside its historical landmarks.
Western Europe is often overrepresented in American travel fantasies, overshadowing the unique offerings of Eastern Europe.
The assumption that all Europeans speak English is both inaccurate and disrespectful; learning the local language enriches the travel experience.
There is significant value in venturing beyond famous tourist destinations to explore lesser-known cities and towns.

As an American, Traveling Europe is Not What I Expected

And that’s what makes it amazing

Schönbrunn Palace in Vienna, Austria (photo taken by the author)

I romanticized Europe for several years.

Browsing news headlines, I thought Europe was a paradise compared to life in the United States. With better work-life balance, walkable cities, and rich culture, I was so excited to move there. But, after living in mainland Europe for several months, I’ve realized the American idea of Europe isn’t what I expected. And, there are a lot of misconceptions about the continent.

Here are a few examples:

European cities are all the same

When I tell people abroad I’m from the United States, I’m often met with a mixed reaction. For example, I’ve been asked about politics, gun safety, and an in-depth analysis of Joe Biden. They’ll also ask me about cowboy culture, celebrity encounters, or New York City subway rats. During these conversations, I’m often surprised at how people abroad view the U.S..

Even though many of the things they mention are part of life in the U.S., they’re completely separate from my life in Boston, Massachusetts. But, these misconceptions make sense. The U.S. is huge and made up of 50 states. My life in New England is in many ways unrecognizable from Texas or California. Even within the same country, the weather, culture, and norms are completely different from state to state.

The same happens in Europe. People make generalizations about the continent because many of the countries are small and closely connected. But, in fact, Europe, is a diverse continent with different cultures, cuisines, and languages.

For example, I took a bus from Vienna to Prague. Even though Austria and Czechia border each other, the language, food, and people are completely different.

European cities have some similarities, but the continent isn’t a monolith.

Everything is old and historic

Many of the benches and buildings in Europe are older than the United States. It’s jaw-dropping being surrounded by so much history. But, Europe isn’t just a place stuck in its past.

The first time I traveled to Austria and saw a skyscraper, I was surprised. I hadn’t expected it amongst all of the historic buildings and cobblestone streets. After all, I hardly ever saw these new buildings on tourist brochures or photos posted by travel influencers on Instagram.

I realized not everything in Europe is built for tourists. Obviously, the ‘old towns’ of the cities are historic and beautiful. But, many European cities also have skyscrapers and modern-looking buildings as well. That’s because these cities are living and existing in the modern age too.

‘Europe’ is just western Europe

When I was little, I dreamed of visiting the Eiffel Tower. I would watch movies set in Paris and was awe-struck by the French culture. I took French lessons in school because I couldn’t wait to travel and order a croissant in a café like a local.

I remember talking to friends in high school about one day traveling to Europe. We daydreamed about walking down a street in Rome or biking along a canal in Amsterdam.

According to Forbes, London, Paris, and Rome are among the most popular European destinations for tourists. They’re also some of the most expensive. It seems many Americans forget about an entire half of Europe when they plan their vacations.

When I was traveling around Central and Eastern Europe this summer, I talked to one of my American friends about my excitement for the trip. She was surprised when I mentioned visiting Bratislava, Slovakia, as she’d never considered going there.

Europe is a lot more than just a few big touristy cities in western Europe. There are many interesting travel destinations in Eastern Europe too.

All Europeans speak English

“There’s no point learning the language because everyone speaks English!”

I’ve unfortunately overheard many Americans say this. But, after traveling around Europe for several months, I completely disagree.

Firstly, not everyone speaks English. While many Europeans learn English, there are plenty of people who don’t. Assuming everyone speaks English (and being annoyed when they do not) is rude and entitled.

Secondly, learning the native language allowed me to fully immerse myself in my travels. I got a deeper understanding of the history and culture of the place I was visiting.

When I traveled to Austria, I only knew a few words and phrases. But, I practiced my German every day while living in Vienna. After a few weeks, I could confidently order my favorite street food, Käsekrainer, in German with ease.

I was also able to talk to locals and form a connection with them. I wouldn’t have had these interesting conversations if I had solely spoken English. Learning some German helped me show a level of respect and kindness to the country and people. After all, I was the visitor in their city, and grateful to be there.

There’s no point traveling off the beaten path

When I told my friend I was visiting Graz, she asked, “Where’s that?” She had never heard of the city, much less knew where it was on the map. That’s because even though Graz is the second-largest city in Austria, it’s not on a lot of tourists’ radar.

A lot of people want to travel to Europe for some sightseeing and there’s nothing wrong with wanting to visit a well-known place. After all, who wouldn’t want to go to the canals in Venice or see the Eiffel Tower in Paris?

Some people, however, assume that there is no point in visiting small towns and cities off the beaten path. And yet, these are some of my favorite places I’ve traveled to. Not only are there often fewer crowds, but I’m also able to discover beautiful hidden gems I never would have visited otherwise.

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