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change.” — Wayne Dyer.</b></p></blockquote><p id="8609">When you begin to appreciate everything that happens in your life, you start to realize that your life is actually pretty amazing.</p><p id="8fde">There is whole new world available to you when you decide to stop the behaviors like complain, blame, ridicule, and you open yourself up to something magical that you couldn’t see before.</p><p id="3be1"><b>Shifting my mindset about things that frustrated me in the past, has completely changed my life.</b></p><p id="4fa1">For example, when someone cut in front of me while I was driving, I used to throw some nasty F-bombs towards them.</p><p id="b3ff"><i>What did I achieve? Nothing! I simply upset myself for the next few minutes.</i></p><p id="d982">When I started to think differently — that this person might be rushing somewhere, maybe his wife is in labor, who knows — I kept my cool and simply continued driving, enjoying the music on the radio or listening to my podcast. <b>I found peace.</b></p><p id="b933">It’s all about perception, and how you look at things.</p><p id="be5c">I simply would love to help anyone who’s stressed, frustrated or might be a little too quick to judge, to <b>stop for a second, check yourself, and ask:</b></p><p id="daa0"><b><i>Is this really necessary right now to put my energy on? Can I be thankful, appreciative and grateful in this moment? Would this make me feel better about myself and allow me to create even more amazing life experience?</i></b></p><blockquote id="fce3"><p><b>If we want to change our lives, we must begin changing ourselves first.</b></p></blockquote><p id="cb5f">Change starts with you.</p><p id="cd37">Want more peace? Be peaceful Want more love

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? Be more loving Want more respect? Respect yourself more. Want less judgement? Judge yourself less. Want less bullying? Bully yourself less.</p><p id="1718">It’s simple to do and it’s simple to not do.</p><p id="03c4"><b>Be the change you want to see in the world,</b> and your world will show you opportunities you have yet to be able to imagine with your mind.</p><p id="28ee"><b>It’s there. Waiting for you to explore its beauty.</b></p><p id="1c97">Are you with me?</p><p id="a056"><b>Let me know in comment if you’ll give this small mindset shift a try.</b></p><p id="4821"><b>Feel free to highlight and clap, and <a href="https://medium.com/@emyknazovic">subscribe for more loving and positive messages about life.</a></b></p><figure id="acfe"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*SsJTulHKQQ1pZqwluMYQ8w.png"><figcaption>Designed by Emy Knazovic via Canva Pro | <a href="undefined">Rajesh Poovathum kadavil</a> | <a href="undefined">Karen Ross</a> | <a href="undefined">The Ink Rat</a> | <a href="undefined">Anastasios Kalaitzis - Fortis Fortuna Adiuvat</a> | <a href="undefined">Alexabliss</a> | <a href="undefined">Olivia V.</a> | <a href="undefined">Only_Passion Drives</a> | <a href="undefined">New Mew</a> | <a href="undefined">Tech Emma</a> | <a href="undefined">Lori Quayle</a> | <a href="undefined">Mallick Speaks</a> | <a href="undefined">Tim Kramer</a> | <a href="undefined">Jinmin Lee</a> | <a href="undefined">Sue Banerji</a> | <a href="undefined">Stephen Sovie</a> | <a href="undefined">Silva Mirovics</a> | <a href="undefined">yourgoalsyourgain</a> | <a href="undefined">Paul Is Positive</a> | <a href="undefined">Trish Church</a> |</figcaption></figure></article></body>

Are You Sure They’re Clap and Runners?😉- Ultimate Mindset Shift

Hear me out, you might just surprise yourself…

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We never know what’s happening in other people’s lives.

They might have read your article and received an emergency phone call, or perhaps the cat flipped over a pot of soup, or maybe the kid spilled milk all over the carpet.

And the big one is — they might have just run out of their ability to comment.

I’m not a fan of people who shame others.

There is no shame in clap-and-running — if that’s even a thing.

Why not focus on what’s important!

I believe when someone claps, even just a clap, it’s still an acknowledgment of our work. Plus, we don’t know if they read or not; maybe they did, maybe they just didn’t have anything to add.

It’s not for us to judge anyone or attempt to mind-read their actions.

A clap is a sign that they liked something about your article.

Maybe it’s simply the title, how cool is that!? Being grateful for every interaction you receive for your work is life-changing.

We must learn to appreciate and keep creating amazing stories for our readers.

It’s just the way I taught myself to think, I try to look at the positives in all situation.

“When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” — Wayne Dyer.

When you begin to appreciate everything that happens in your life, you start to realize that your life is actually pretty amazing.

There is whole new world available to you when you decide to stop the behaviors like complain, blame, ridicule, and you open yourself up to something magical that you couldn’t see before.

Shifting my mindset about things that frustrated me in the past, has completely changed my life.

For example, when someone cut in front of me while I was driving, I used to throw some nasty F-bombs towards them.

What did I achieve? Nothing! I simply upset myself for the next few minutes.

When I started to think differently — that this person might be rushing somewhere, maybe his wife is in labor, who knows — I kept my cool and simply continued driving, enjoying the music on the radio or listening to my podcast. I found peace.

It’s all about perception, and how you look at things.

I simply would love to help anyone who’s stressed, frustrated or might be a little too quick to judge, to stop for a second, check yourself, and ask:

Is this really necessary right now to put my energy on? Can I be thankful, appreciative and grateful in this moment? Would this make me feel better about myself and allow me to create even more amazing life experience?

If we want to change our lives, we must begin changing ourselves first.

Change starts with you.

Want more peace? Be peaceful Want more love? Be more loving Want more respect? Respect yourself more. Want less judgement? Judge yourself less. Want less bullying? Bully yourself less.

It’s simple to do and it’s simple to not do.

Be the change you want to see in the world, and your world will show you opportunities you have yet to be able to imagine with your mind.

It’s there. Waiting for you to explore its beauty.

Are you with me?

Let me know in comment if you’ll give this small mindset shift a try.

Feel free to highlight and clap, and subscribe for more loving and positive messages about life.

Designed by Emy Knazovic via Canva Pro | Rajesh Poovathum kadavil | Karen Ross | The Ink Rat | Anastasios Kalaitzis - Fortis Fortuna Adiuvat | Alexabliss | Olivia V. | Only_Passion Drives | New Mew | Tech Emma | Lori Quayle | Mallick Speaks | Tim Kramer | Jinmin Lee | Sue Banerji | Stephen Sovie | Silva Mirovics | yourgoalsyourgain | Paul Is Positive | Trish Church |
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