Are you still faking your orgasms?

Summary

The article addresses the prevalent issue of women faking orgasms, offering practical advice for both men and women to ensure mutual sexual satisfaction.

Abstract

The article "Are You Still Faking Your Orgasms?" delves into the ongoing phenomenon of women pretending to reach climax during sexual encounters. It suggests that this behavior stems from either a lack of interest in pursuing an orgasm on a particular occasion or a misconception that female pleasure is not as important. The author emphasizes that it's acceptable for a woman to choose not to have an orgasm out of generosity towards her partner, but it's crucial to dispel the notion that women are not entitled to sexual fulfillment. The piece provides a practical guide to achieving orgasm, which includes the importance of foreplay, the ability of men to continue sexual activity after ejaculation, and the necessity of afterplay. It also stresses the importance of open communication between partners and encourages women to assert their right to pleasure without resorting to anger or aggression.

Opinions

Women sometimes fake orgasms either due to disinterest or a belief that their pleasure is secondary.
It is acceptable for a woman to forgo her own orgasm as an act of generosity, but this should not be due to a lack of awareness about her right to pleasure.
Foreplay is highlighted as a crucial component for female arousal and bridging the gap between male and female climax timings.
Men are encouraged to continue sexual activity post-ejaculation to ensure their partner's satisfaction.
Afterplay is suggested as an alternative to penetrative sex after male ejaculation, with fingering and neck kissing as examples.
The author believes that men should not assume their pleasure signifies the end of sexual activity.
Open communication with male partners about sexual needs is essential, and anger should be avoided in favor of constructive dialogue.
The article promotes the idea of being a "happy feminist" by prioritizing one's own pleasure and sharing knowledge to improve sexual experiences for women.

Most women fake it — myth or truth?

Women who fake their orgasms because one of the two reasons.

They can’t be bothered that night

They don’t know they are entitled to come too

If you choose not to have an orgasm because you love your partner and your partner really wants it so you want to be generous and supportive even if you can’t be bothered to have sex. That’s fine.

We must, however, eliminate the second reason.

Women, you deserve to reach orgasm heaven.

A practical guide to orgasm

Foreplay: Being licked before penetration sex is one of the best ways to catch up with the speed men come. Foreplay is mostly for women, men must remember this. FYI: don’t go down on men if they refuse to go down on you. Play fair.

Men’s power: Men can actually hold their hard dick for longer after they come. If you have no worries about the condom breaking, he should stay inside and keep going until you come. Men who walk away immediately after they come need a talking to.

Afterplay: Sometimes we don’t want the cum-filled condom to stay in the vagina, but that doesn’t excuse the men from pleasuring us. A helpful suggestion is to kiss the neck whilst fingering your female partner until she comes. The man shouldn’t just walk away and consider his pleasure dictates the end of the sexual intercourse, it’s a false assumption.

Talk to him, don’t be angry

Most men are straightforward in their thinking. So if they don’t do the above, it’s not wise to automatically get angry and assume they are self-serving jerks. They probably don’t know; just tell them.

If they refuse to oblige, then that’s problematic. They must belong to another era.

Don’t be an angry feminist, be a happy feminist who comes.

Are You Still Faking Your Orgasms?

It is weird that women still fake their orgasms. I just want to bust some myths and give us three simple solutions for both men and women.

Most women fake it — myth or truth?

A practical guide to orgasm

Talk to him, don’t be angry