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Are You Aware Of Your Destiny In Your Twin Flame Relationship?

You gave them the biggest gift they could ever receive

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You don’t meet your twin flame because the Universe is trying to hurt you. Meeting your twin is a gift beyond what you can ever imagine — even though it often doesn’t feel like that. Especially when you are in separation (trust me, I know how incredibly painful this is).

Meeting you has been a gift for your twin flame as well. This person you call your twin was lost before they met you. You came into their life to shine a light on divine love. A love they thought they would never find or deserve.

They have been looking for this love their whole lives, but gave up just before the moment they met you.

The Universe has a funny timing for each and every one of us.

Twin flames are no coincidence

If you are truly in a twin flame connection, know that nothing on this journey is a coincidence. Everything is happening at precisely the right moment, for both of you.

You might want to check the signs in the below article to confirm you are really in a twin flame relationship, because it’s very common to confuse it with a toxic person.

Twin flames are meant to meet each other at exactly the time you meet them. And they are also meant to separate again (sorry, no traditional happy ending here). This divine love is incredibly hard to understand because it will shake your whole world upside down.

How can the person you love so much, also hurt you in ways you never even thought were possible?

Please remember that this is all part of the bigger plan, though.

Twin flames don’t hurt each other intentionally

Your twin flame is not hurting you intentionally. This is probably the biggest thing to understand on this journey. They are hurt souls (like you), and they do things beyond their own comprehension.

Meeting you has been incredibly challenging for them as well. Imagine giving up on the one thing you have been searching for (true love) and then suddenly finding it totally out of the blue.

You probably came at a very inconvenient time for them, and they have no idea how to handle the situation. Besides that, the love you show them almost feels unreal to them. Like they don’t deserve it.

After all, they have been looking for this love their whole lives but have never been able to find it.

Why would it be different with you?

But something in you wakes them up. It’s something incredibly scary which makes them very vulnerable. Why does love suddenly feel so fragile? How can they give their whole heart and soul to somebody they barely know? Somebody who deep down also thinks they are not really worthy of that sort of love?

Twin flames fulfill each other’s destiny

Twin flames often have no idea what to do with this incredible connection they suddenly feel. All sorts of things come into their heads. What if it’s all an illusion? What if this person suddenly breaks up with them? What if this love is not mutual? What if, after finding exactly what they had been looking for, it all disappears again?

The reality is almost too scary.

This cannot be right. Something wrong must happen soon. How is it possible to feel so One with another person? What if this person suddenly falls away? That would be the worst thing you can ever imagine.

And that is exactly what happens: your twin flame starts to run at some point. It doesn’t matter if you are the Runner or the Chaser — both are running away from themselves.

The Runner runs because they think they are not worthy of love and they want to stay in control of what they do know. The Chaser runs because their biggest nightmare came true — that the Runner starts running.

But both of them are unaware that they are each other. What the runner is running from (unconditional love), is inside of them. It just runs with them. The Chaser is running from the same thing — thinking they have to grasp onto that unconditional love they felt with their twin.

You are your own destiny

Twin flames show you what you need to see in your life. And you show it to them too. Once we see it though, we still have a choice to make. We can take the red or the blue pill. Are you going to keep running after your twin flame, or are you going to meet your true Self?

You know what you need to do. You know what your twin flame showed you.

You are worthy of love.

Your twin flame knows this too, but they might choose the other path. The path of least resistance. After all, you are about to embark on a hell of a journey if you take the red pill — which you know is not going to be easy.

It is damn hard to meet your demons, fight them, embrace them, and then start from scratch again with a totally new reality. Truly looking in the mirror is probably the hardest thing for a person to do.

It’s why so many twin flames choose to take the easy way. Yes, they found divine love, but no, they are not ready for it.

You as the one who chose the hard way can only accept that. You will learn that no matter what you do or say, your twin has to choose themselves first.

They cannot choose you if they are disconnected from themselves.

And that is something to be grateful for. The Universe is not stupid for making you go through this journey.

Twin flame love is forever

Once you have understood your destiny in the twin flame relationship, you will realize that this love can never fade. It is impossible to fade because your twin flame gave you everything that you needed to learn.

And you gave them the same. You gave them a chance to feel true love, and they felt it. It might be the biggest gift you could ever give to another soul. You had the ability to let them experience unconditional love — even if it was for just a short time.

They chose to not choose love (not your love, but their own love) and continue with the easy way. And that is totally fine. They will choose what they think is best for them, and there is a reason why that is not you.

Your destiny was never to be with your twin flame. Your destiny was to give them a choice. Whatever that choice is, you will love it.

You will love it because you chose to face the hard way. It is the way that teaches you that everything is love. That is your reward. It’s not your twin flame who keeps on choosing what they choose.

You are your reward.

If this resonates with you, I am pretty sure you are going to like these articles:

I have started a new series on my Medium profile that will describe my twin flame journey from our first meeting to our reunion three years later. You can read part one here if you are interested.

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