(N.P.D)
“While others might feel manipulative, I feel powerless. Sometimes I just hurt so bad from the mean things that people do to me, real or perceived, or I’m so desperately feeling abandoned, that I withdraw and pout and go silent. At some point people get pissed off and fed up with that crap and they go away and then I’m left with nothing all over again.” ― Paul T. Mason, Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder
Its about simplification.
My definition for my readers so it’s easier to understand is a disorder that narcissists have.
The simple traits of N.P.D
- entitlement
- arrogant
- lack empathy
- Must be loved 24/7 or assume you hate them.
First- let’s go over the 3 main facts:
- Narcissist normally real you in , tell you exactly what you want to hear in the beginning just so they can get you to believe that there personality is always a happy go lucky person.
- love to play the blame game blaming everyone else
- They can never accept they have done any harm what so ever! No, sorry, I’ve ever heard.
"Every single guy abused her before me. poor girl"
Right?
I think it only took one dinner for her to tell me her entire life story.
I grew up with the parents she wishes she had, most times when my parents where loving to me she got jealous an treated me with no respect.
The only reason I mentioned it is because it’s the tee to the kettle in this disorder . The biggest issue I’ve noticed is her always bringing up her past living styles. How her family was never there for her like mine were.
(Childhood trauma = N.P.D)
NPD’rs are the car/truck that needs to stay running and The mainstream media is their feeding ground.
It would be a great disaster if the mainstream media went bye-bye forever!
N.P.D people are so stern that other people’s mainstream accounts doesn’t affect their feelings when actually they feel everything they see!!
REALLY, there are feelings every single day that get messed with because their thoughts are more likely to be
"She's skinny, I'm not"
"They have such a good relationship "
"Wow, they don't deserve that"
ALL NEGATIVE thoughts, right?
Yet normal people have these thoughts to they just leave the brain as quick as they come.
N.P.D people CANT do that.
Well What now?
If you have kids with this person or they are a family member an you are forced to communicate with this person then its best to:
- keep notes on what is said between you two.
- Keep a diary . It may help you out, or keep your children, keep you out of jail. The distortion tactics NPD people use will make you “forget” all the chaos.
them saying this like its there day job stressed me out:
“I never said that”
I highly recommend the more interested readers to check out this book, one of my favorite quotes:
“all we ever see of each other is the representation we hold inside our own minds.” ― Nick Alexander, Things We Never Said
IS THERE HOPE? TREATMENT? MEDICATIONS THAT CAN FIX THIS?
Sad but NO , not a cure to this problem.
Start with a Really good therapist with a mix of medicine that is evidence based.
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