Twin flames and awakening
Are Twin Flames Real or Am I Crazy?
Doubts are part of the journey.

When you’re first awakening to a new level of reality, it makes you feel like you’re going mad. But when you’ve met your twin flame — a spiritual experience that nobody can prepare you for — you really feel like you’re crazy. It’s hard to find anyone to talk to about it, even other spiritual people. That’s because twin flames seem impossible and the phenomenon happens to such a small number of people.
Twin flames make you feel crazy because along with them come strange coincidences. Impossible occurrences that seem to go against the laws of nature begin to happen to you. Their existence seems like a miracle in itself, but other miracles begin to happen, too. You are awakened to the fact that there is a greater meaning in love — it goes beyond this one story of two people. It’s life-changing. The cosmos seems to make total sense all of a sudden, and yet none of it makes any sense.
Doubts set in because the things you’re starting to believe seem unbelievable. You’re a smart person who doesn’t believe in crazy things. You like to have proof and reasons. Yet, the concept of twin flames landed in your lap and it seems to totally explain — through unexplainable terms — what you’re going through.
You’re not crazy. Having doubts is part of having a twin flame.
I’ve written a book about twin flames and I still have doubts. I still smirk when someone asks if twin flames are real or challenges me on my views which I know sound totally insane. I still wonder if twin flames are real myself, so how can I blame anyone for being a skeptic? It truly sounds ridiculous to someone living in the “mundane” world.
When you accept that the impossible is possible and miracles can happen at any instant, only then do twin flames make sense.
It’s Hard to Find People Who Get It
When I was enduring twin flame separation and waiting for my twin flame to come back, the crazy feelings I was having and strange mental breakdowns became the norm. And back then, it would have been great to have someone to talk to about it who gets it.
I had a couple friends who got it, but there is no central point of information about this topic. There are no scholars studying it for years. No books in the library on the topic. All we have is anecdotes from people like us.
You can’t even talk to your therapist about it because they’ll probably freak out.
Feeling Crazy Is Normal
Part of feeling like you’re losing your mind has to do with the fact that you are awakened to a part of reality that most people aren’t. And don’t worry — you’re going crazy, but you’re going crazy in a normal way.
I’ve learned from talking to and coaching countless people on their twin flame journeys that we’re all in the same boat. We all feel nuts. And to me, that’s a huge sign that you’ve met your twin flame.
You’re not alone in what you’re going through.
So, if you feel like you’re crazy, you are. Also, twin flames are real. Embrace the insanity. Welcome to the party!
Doubts or Anxiety Is Normal
Sometimes, having a twin flame is like having the ultimate dark night of the soul. Because you’re so connected to this person, you feel their energy. You feel what they feel. You also have soul growth that’s quick, making you feel like collapsing sometimes.
Lots of feelings come out of seemingly nowhere. You might have anxiety often and with no provocation.
Just remember, you’re not crazy. Your soul is calibrating to your new physical reality. It’s a very weird thing to experience. If you endure — which you have no choice but to do — then it gets more and more interesting.
Hi, I’m Emily. In addition to writing, I also teach meditation, read tarot, create podcasts, and I’m a spiritual/twin flame coach. I have a master’s in philosophy which often helps when I write about life. For more about me, have a look at my website or book a session with me.
I am also the author of Twin Flames and the Love Story Within, available on Amazon. You may also be interested in the Twin Flame Support Group that I run.
The divine in me recognizes the divine in you.
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