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</div> </div> </a> </div><p id="f092">A big hello to some of my writer friends.</p><p id="29d3"><a href="undefined">Dr Mehmet Yildiz</a>, <a href="undefined">Desiree Driesenaar</a>, <a href="undefined">Deborah Christensen</a>, <a href="undefined">Amy Marley</a>, <a href="undefined">Britni Pepper</a>, <a href="undefined">Joe Luca</a>, <a href="undefined">CR Mandler MAT</a>, <a href="undefined">Sumera Rizwan</a>, <a href="undefined">Neha Sandhir S</a>, <a href="undefined">Karen Madej</a>, <a href="undefined">EP McKnight, MEd</a>, <a href="undefined">Charlotte Zobeir Ali</a>, <a href="undefined">Selma</a>, <a href="undefined">Steve Campbell</a>, <a href="undefined">Stephen Dalton</a>, <a href="undefined">Gurpreet Dhariwal</a> <a href="undefined">Manasi Diwakar</a> <a href="undefined">Christina M. Ward</a> <a href="undefined">Chirag</a> <a href="undefined">Cheshta Mann</a> <a href="undefined">Carol Price</a>, <a href="undefined">Liam Ireland</a>, <a href="undefined">Dr John Rose</a> <a href="undefined">,</a> <a href="undefined">Dr Preeti Singh</a>, <a href="undefined">Aurora Eliam, CMP</a>, <a href="undefined">Lanu Pitan</a>, <a href="undefined">Ntathu Allen</a></p></article></body>

Poetry | Mental Health | Relationships

Are They Asking To Be Rescued?

Be Curious

Photo by Mathias Huysmans on Unsplash

Their indecision

is not an invitation

I reflect instead

When someone is happy to remain in their circumstances, it’s not up to you to try and fix them. It’s best to pause and sit in allowance of the situation.

The first step into allowance is curiosity. Be curious about the situation. Wonder why the person is choosing this. Be in allowance.

Avoid Judgment and Improve Your Life * Allowance is the Lube for Change

Tag me @treelangdon or add a message to this post if you’d like to connect. I’m a ‘Top Writer’ in Poetry on Medium. Find me on Twitter and Facebook.

I write to inspire and make connections. If you’re interested in more, sign up here.

A big hello to some of my writer friends.

Dr Mehmet Yildiz, Desiree Driesenaar, Deborah Christensen, Amy Marley, Britni Pepper, Joe Luca, CR Mandler MAT, Sumera Rizwan, Neha Sandhir S, Karen Madej, EP McKnight, MEd, Charlotte Zobeir Ali, Selma, Steve Campbell, Stephen Dalton, Gurpreet Dhariwal Manasi Diwakar Christina M. Ward Chirag Cheshta Mann Carol Price, Liam Ireland, Dr John Rose , Dr Preeti Singh, Aurora Eliam, CMP, Lanu Pitan, Ntathu Allen

Poetry
Mental Health
Relationships
Allowance
Curiousity
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