Andrew Tate Says “I’m Losing My Value” Each Time I Sleep with A Man

Will men ever stop obsessing over women’s virginity?

For those who don’t know me, I’m 38 years old, a single mother, and well respected by friends, family, colleagues and everyone I have come in contact with.

And yes, I’m financially, socially and emotionally dependent on myself. But the best part of this conversation is that “I’m a ‘Single Woman’ having sex with men.” And according to Andrew Tate, this is the biggest abomination a woman can commit because it eats away her values “as a woman.”

Yep! I’m literally “degrading” my self-worth every time I f*ck a dude. Because women should only have sex with their husbands. And since I’m not married, I shouldn’t be having sex.

Andrew says I’m crazy to think my values are worth a penny after sleeping with multiple men. I’m not supposed to have sex, or flirt with any man “I am not married to.”

It’s quite interesting that most people will agree that a woman is the pride of her husband but NEVER the other way round. A woman’s body is sacred and should be preserved for ONLY one man. But the man’s body is for the entire community and yet, his worth remains intact.

A man can sleep with as many women as he wants and no one will judge him for that. But a woman? Oh, she’s the whore with no moral values. She’s as dirty as the pigs. She’s a degenerated being and should not be treated with respect. Her integrity died the minute she lost her virginity.

But wait?

Who the hell is dis-vir-gin-ing all these women? How monstrous of them to stain her image and reduce her to such insignificant vile with their tenacious urges.

What callous human being will look at an innocent virgin and defile her knowing she will amount to nothing the minute he’s out of her cunt?

How sadistic are these people corrupting the minds and bodies of young girls? What sensible human being will have sex with a girl he’s not married to?

It can’t possibly be men that are committing these atrocities, can it? I mean men are too wise to know evil from good. They can’t go around sticking their penises into any woman’s vagina unless they’re their wives, right? These whores are definitely breaking their virginity by themselves.

Tck! Tck! Tck! This is how stupid Andrew and his group of incels sound.

“Our bodies should have remained untouched because you knew we were unmarried and yet you malicious and selfishly had sex with us and now you treat us like garbage.”

Men obsessing over women’s virginity is nothing new. We have known this for centuries but why do we still cling to such atrocious culture when the modern world has evolved?

We have different sexualities and marriages between people of the same sex. We have social media grooming young couples, non-polygamous couple bonding in marriages and more men opting out of marriage just like women.

Yet, the sacredness of women’s virginity has remained unchanged. Men idolize virginity until they get into her pants. And don’t come with that argument of ‘not all men’ because when I say “men idolize virgins” I mean “all men.” All men have some kind of sentiment attached to virgins whether they like to f*ck them or not.

We think virgins are saints and innocent so we discredit non-virgins. A woman can flirt with men, smoke and do drugs with her boyfriend, leech on him, get beaten and subject herself to his urges, steal for him and even kill for him, but as long as he doesn’t penetrate her, then she’s innocent. She’s still valued more than the woman who had one-time sex and doesn’t do any of the above the other girl does.

What’s more disgusting about women preserving their virginity is that virginity is just men’s construct to keep women’s bodies under their control.

Some time ago, a tweet went viral about a doctor who recommended disvirgining a girl through a medical procedure because her hymen was blocking her vagina from releasing blood. The girl was seventeen and unable to menstruate and ovulate.

The female doctor diagnosed the problem to be imperforate hymen, a rare disorder that only happens to 5% of women. Essentially, this is a birth dysfunction where the hymen completely covers the opening to the vagina and the only fix is to cut the hymen open.

But the mother of the child was more concerned about the shame her daughter will go through when people learn that she’s no longer a virgin than the pain her daughter will endure because of the surgery. The mother wasn’t grateful that there was a solution that will enable her daughter to menstruate and give birth, an option that was denied her from birth.

How cynical of her, right?

If you don’t know what a hymen is, it is the excess tissue that blocks bacteria from entering the vagina. Apparently, men used that as an excuse to block everything else from entering a girl’s vagina. Well, until she’s married then her husband’s dick can enter.

Funny, right? Yeah!

Now you get how the whole virginity charade started. Women were made to believe that the moment your hymen is torn, you stop being innocent and if it wasn’t your husband that broke your virginity, then you’ve lost 1 point of your worth.

I spent four hours listening as some men described what they find attractive in women. I felt obnoxious hearing how these men were devouring the women they slept with. They had no respect for these women or guilt for their deceit.

All the while they made the woman feel special, and they confessed their undying love but at the round table with boys, these women are nothing but worthless sluts.

No wonder some women are closing up and giving themselves to the highest bidders (yes, both financially and otherwise) and men are bitter that they are receiving less sex at a higher price.

Isn’t it ridiculous? You shame us for having sex outside wedlock. Then we started giving sex to only those who compensate for our generosity. And now you mock our values because you ain’t getting a piece of the pile.

Who is Andrew Tate by the way and why do I care about his opinion of women?

Andrew Tate is a misogynist influencer with over 4 million followers. He rose to fame after his appearance on Big Brother in 2016. Shortly after some misogynist tweets Andrew made on Twitter, a video went viral showing Andrew beating a woman and flogging her with his waist belt. That scandal resulted in Andrew’s eviction from the show.

However, the 7 days he stayed in Big Brother House led to the fame and success of Andrew. His fame came with a price we will pay for a long time if nothing is done to stop his negative influence on young men.

Andrew created an online community where he trains young boys who can’t seduce a woman how to violate and force women into submission. He has been accused on several criminal charges from sexual exploitation to rape and human trafficking.

Andrew’s view about women is disturbing. He said women are like children, a man’s property, a liability. His opinion is that women should be sex slaves because we are lazy and stupid. He said female rape victims should take responsibility for being raped and that women belong to the kitchen.

In 2022, Andrew was banned from Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube because his toxic masculine ideology was spreading and causing harm to both women and men.

Despite all allegations against Andrew, it seems that a collective number of vulnerable men on the internet worship him.

When people like Andrew Tate become famous and influential, it legitimizes these kinds of beliefs and behaviors, not just for boys, but for girls as well, making it difficult for them to report inappropriate comments — whether they be misogynistic, racist or sexist.

It also reinforces the harmful idea in boys and young men that anger and violence are the only “acceptable” emotions they can experience and express, and only through toxic behaviors they can prove their masculinity and dominance over women.

In recent years, toxic masculinity has become a comprehensive explanation for male violence and sexuality. We cannot deny that extreme forms of some “traditional” male characteristics are associated with violence, misogyny and poor health.

For a while now, newspaper and magazine articles have blamed toxic masculinity for rape, murder, mass shootings, gang violence, online trolling, and climate change.

Many progressives suggest that purifying masculinity is an essential path to gender equality. This is why we need to protect our children from bad influencers like Andrew.

The truth is that only insecure men are included in this category of losers because this bunch make every relationship with a woman about sex. They say they want to be the first to show the woman how to arch her back during sex. Something they learned by sleeping with different women.

Second, they don’t like women who are well-traveled. They feel worthless because they can’t add anything new to the woman’s life if the woman is more experienced than them in the bedroom and in life in general. These men kept boasting that they want smart and intelligent women who could tickle their fancy.

Honestly, these men are helplessly living a mirage. Do you think any intelligent and smart woman would want to be in your shadow? In this 21st century?

I have always said this and I will continue to say it, “modern women are not like your weak mothers.” You cannot bully us into submission with virginity shame and marriage proposals. If you manage to fool some women into sleeping with you, that is only a hand full that do not know their values as a “human being.”

You can take a donkey to the stream but you can’t force him to drink from it. If a donkey can have a mind of her own, how much more women?

This strategy of shaming women to force us into a nuclear family circle has become old. Men need to find a better strategy that will benefit both genders like “stop making your lives about women.”

I doubt any responsible man is having a hard time living his life outside of women, and more or less he isn’t stuck in some toxic masculine clothing. Responsible people know that respect is earned and they don’t use gimmicks to get submission from women like Andrew Tate and his group does.

But come to think of it.

Are modern women actually losing their values compared to older generations of women?

Absolutely not! If anything we have gained more values than women of the past.

I was reading a historical book the other day. I read how widows were burnt at the stake after the death of their husbands. No one did anything to stop these horrifying murders. Both men and women stood by and cheered as the widow was burnt alive to join her deceased husband.

Also, I remember stories about the killings of twins. Back in 1870s, twins were an abomination to one indigenous community in Nigeria. They believed the children’s father was possessed by an evil spirit and the mother committed a hideous sin which resulted in the birth of more than one child.

The twin children were thrown away in the forest and allowed to die slowly by starvation. Until a brave missionary, Mary Slessor stopped this abominable tradition and raised these children as her own.

So tell me, which new generation woman will stand by and watch as her fellow woman gets murdered without looking for a way to save her from her murderers? Or sacrifice her innocent child who did no wrong to anyone?

When you look at women of today, you will notice we are more resilient, more purpose-driven, more outspoken, more self-empowered and happier than women from ages ago.

So the real reason men like Andrew are threatened by women is because we are not cowering under their feet as their ancestors did. Women have been humiliated enough throughout the ages. If they are not shaming our bodies, then they breaking our souls all so we bow to egoistic men.

Well, the little bird will not remain in the cage forever. One day, she will learn to fly. With all the emotional trauma men have put women through, and continue to put us through, we have learned to beat the masters in their own game. You can no longer get free sex with cheap lies as you used to. And if you want a smart and intelligent woman, you will have to earn her respect. Period!

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