An Open Letter To Israel From America’s 9/11 Generation
Praying that history does not repeat
Hello to Israel.

This letter is from the thoughtful, decent Americans who experienced 9/11 and its aftermath.
First and foremost we want to make clear to you that WE FEEL YOUR PAIN. We offer our condolences to the families of your mothers, fathers, sons, and daughters lost on October 7, 2023. We care for all of you caught up in the horror of that moment.
America’s 9/11 was similar to Israel’s 10/7.
On the morning of 9/11/2001, millions of Americans heard that a commercial airliner had crashed into the World Trade Center North Tower at 8:46am. We watched black smoke drift up against an otherwise perfect blue sky.
We urged the 9,000 people in the tower to walk out safely. Seventeen minutes later, millions witnessed another plane hurtle into the South Tower. A half-hour later we heard that a third plane had crashed into the US Pentagon, and then a fourth fell into a field. By 10:28am both towers, symbols of America’s economic power and righteousness, had collapsed into twisted heaps of steel, concrete, and grey dust. The American bodies had evaporated.
Thousands visited the site in the following weeks. I remember the air so odd and acrid. America, like Israel, was under a bitter attack.
We were horrified at the loss of 3,000 Americans.
We became angry that our leaders had been caught unawares.
We launched ourselves on the path of revenge.
We reveled over the Afghanistan invasion.
We invaded Iraq to further our war on terror.
Twenty-two years later, decent Americans try not to think back to the months after 9/11. Even the most anti-war among us had argued that the Taliban were medieval and anti-women. Every US politician cheered the invasion. Disagreement was not tolerated.
Eighteen months after 9/11, we genuinely debated the invasion of Iraq but still swept ourselves up into the wonder of American self-righteousness.
Today it remains painful to think of those times. Only out of concern for Israel do we force ourselves to recount the impact of our war on terror. It frightens us that October 2023 feels achingly similar to September 2001.
How successful has America’s 9/11 response been?
We were able to kill Osama Bin Laden, the architect of 9/11, but we missed the targets elsewhere. The price we paid was shockingly high. Our Secretary of Defense underestimated the financial cost of the Iraq War by more than 100-times.
Elimination of the Enemy In Afghanistan
The Taliban rule Afghanistan today like they did in 2000. Women’s rights are the same as before the invasion.
Elimination of the Enemy in Iraq
Saddam Hussein is dead, but Iraq remains an authoritarian state. Iraq is thought to be “not free” by Freedom House, but citizens do appear to have more rights than under Saddam. The peak strength of ISIS has been tamped down, but it and other anti-West organizations remain.
Lives Lost
The Watson Institute has determined that over 230,000 civilians lost their lives directly as a result of America’s invasions of Afghanistan and Iraq. Total casualties in the broader conflict, including Syria, Pakistan, and Yemen are over 900,000.
US Costs —Financial
The US Special Inspector General observed that the US expended $6.4 trillion dollars on these two wars alone, a little more than the US federal budget in 2022. All-in estimates are far higher.
US Costs — Air Travel
The US restored air travel within a few days of 9/11. It created the Transportation Security Administration (TSA) and will spend $10.5 billion, not quite half the size of Israel’s 2022 military budget, on the agency in 2023. Security processes impose 225 million hours of delays each year on US travelers. The measures have been determined to be ineffective by many studies and tests.
US Costs — Right to Privacy
In the interest of national security, sweeping laws were passed after 9/11 that gave US agencies the right to access private communications with minimal justification. Some of these laws remain in place today, though the Patriot Act does not.
US Public Opinion 20 Years Later
Twenty years after the Afghanistan invasion, 62% of Americans believe that it was a mistake. 71% think it a failure. A different survey twenty years after the Iraq War began, identified that another 62% of Americans thought the Iraq War not worth fighting.
World Reputation
America’s decisions after 9/11 harmed its reputation in the West and deeply so in the East. The killing of civilians has possibly created more terrorists than it has removed.
The US Ambassador to China (and at one time to NATO) has publicly stated that the Iraq invasion “damaged US credibility.” Nonetheless, per most surveys, the US is still viewed favorably by Western civilians.
Israel has looked towards the United States for approval of its assault on Gaza. Like a good friend, US leadership has supported Israel.
Israeli leadership has surely considered the poor US performance after 9/11 and assures itself that Israel will not fall so short. By the simplest of measures, the US lost the Afghanistan War, it falsely justified its invasion of Iraq, and the broader war on terror took upwards of 400,000 civilian lives while spending almost $9 trillion dollars.
Osama Bin Laden enticed the United States to stab deeply into the fibers of truth and justice.
Americans who endured 9/11 and the two decades since believe Israel can perform better than the United States did.
But only if Israel chooses wisely. And soon.
Again, we ask ourselves the question: Who won 9/11?
Objectively, terrorism won that day and the months after. The Cato Institute, a conservative think tank, declared that the US lost its war on terror by overemphasizing direct military intervention — effectively elevating the status of a very small number of terrorists.
Americans don’t want to arrive at the moment when historians declare Hamas or its successors winners over Israel.
Israel, please choose well.
You still have time to learn from America’s errors.
Comments are welcome. Claps are deeply appreciated.
J. Andrew Shelley has spent years in startups that did nice stuff. Some stalling. Some selling. One for over half a billion dollars. But none making him rich. He now distills life into worthwhile stories that bring to light the many sides of truth.
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