An Easy Night Routine that Improved My Sleep
A simple three steps 20-minute night routine that reduced my headaches, pain in the neck and shoulders

I have been living with teeth grinding since I can remember — always using mouth guards to avoid wearing my teeth. I never had insomnia or anything like that, but as stressful times happened throughout my life, waking up with a headache and jaw pain was inevitable. Also, working a 9–5 sitting job looking into a screen all day isn’t the best for the neck and shoulders — as a consequence, mine are recurrently sore.
Exercising regularly, drinking coffee only in the early morning, having an ergonomic workspace, and avoiding stressful tasks at the end of the day were important for a life with fewer (or no) headaches, but until I was faced with my monograph (coding, writing, acquiring data, processing data, etc) I hadn’t taken some tips for better sleep seriously.
Even though I was under a lot of stress, most days I woke up without a headache or a sore jaw. I still apply this routine and, when I stop doing it, I usually miss it — because I will have some soreness that wouldn’t have happened if I was doing this 20 minutes routine.
This routine is based on a stretch-heat-massage sequence (not necessarily always in this order). The stretch releases some tension, the heat comfort that tension and relaxes the muscle, and the massage is more relaxing (at least for me) after the heat.
Stretch the neck, shoulders, and jaw
This one doesn’t even take 5 minutes, but the difference can be felt in moments. Sometimes I get fancy and search for different stretches, but most of the time I go with the basics:
- Side bend the neck and hold for 30 seconds for each side;
- Rotate the neck 5 times clockwise and reverse;
- Bring the arm (once for each arm) across the front of the body at about chest height and hold it with the other arm for 30 seconds;
- Open and close (fully and slowly) the jaw 10–15 times.
Apply heat — especially in the neck and jaw
Before I stretch, I usually prepare my thermal bag to apply the heat where it is the sorest. After stretching, I put the bag on my neck (where it was the sorest that day) and once it gets a little cooler I put it on my face (a little on each side of the mandible and my forehead). Usually, 2 minutes in each sore place (or sensible) can make the difference already.
Disclaimer: is important to be careful with the thermal bag — it has to be enrolled with something to not cause burns.
Massage in the sore places
Depends on the day, but massaging the face, shoulder, and neck with a massager or with my hands is always enjoyable. For teeth grinding, there are a lot of special massages in the mandibular area. For me, these are the massages that are the most effective:
- Massage both sides of the lower jaw making circles clockwise and reverse;
- Press a little more firmly (also while doing circles) just below the ears, behind my jaw;
- Massage with an up and down movement — thought all of the jaws.
Usually choose one movement for each area that feels good at the moment and repeat for 30 seconds to 1 minute and do that at least for one area in the neck, one in the arms/shoulders, and one in the face.
Extra: avoid screens at least for one hour (more, if possible) before sleep
Probably the hardest one on this list, and the one I didn’t take it seriously for a long time. But it’s a game-changer.
Even though I wouldn’t schedule stressful tasks such as reviewing my teacher’s notes in the evening, maybe I would have some message or e-mail that would come in and keep my brain thinking about what I should be doing or planning how I should do it.
That was a problem for me because in the last hour of the day I don’t have the energy or willpower to perform well in a task, so it’s kinda obvious that I should be just resting for the next day — that was already planned.
This is something I still do every day, both for stress and as a means to try to rest more meaningfully — have that one hour to relax however I want, regardless of whatever could be required of me or awaken my thoughts.
In this post, I covered a very simple to implement 20-minutes night routine that improved my sleep, especially considering the consequences of working on a computer every day and living with bruxism/teeth grinding. This routine has improved my sleep quality, thus, my life quality in a very stressful moment of my life.
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