Always Keep Your Door Open

The people you love eventually disappoint you. They’ll betray you. This article isn’t a cautionary tale. I’m not hinting at warning signs for you to look for. Instead, let them be who they are — not what you think. Faith means trust without proof. You’re going to fall apart from everyone you know. Not all at once; but with time and slow pacing. And it takes a toll on your psyche. Your meetings are connected to you. As long as you can place them by memory. You’re connected. What does it all mean? Always Keep Your Door Open. Despite the end of a relationship (with said person). It never really ends.

Be open to reconnecting. To renewal. And to reconciliation.

Stay in touch. Flirt with potential of getting back together. I don’t care how complex the situation is. Shared history is important. And if their bad experience damaged your motivation . They didn’t win but you lose. You lose because you’re now closing your heart. Which isn’t the way to live - pure spirit. Questioning the motives of others and observing life through doubt. This keeps you closed from healthy connection. Someone might want to participate around your aura, your personal space. But your forcefield is shielding their introduction. The mistrust of one often labels for all. If I encountered one bad apple — does it mean the batch is rotten? What about the branches anonymous from your own apple tree? How serious is betrayal really? How damaging is dishonesty? Build an expansive castle door. One that shields your home from intruders. But leaving the gate open…this muddles their deceptive way.

Secrets. Closed doors. Buried treasures. And locked boxes. All silly if you think about it. Collectively. What are we hiding from each other? If you’re unclothed? Can you develop the courage? To roam naked.

Your open heart will invite new experiences. Filling your pallet with variance in cuisine. You can do something you haven’t. Meet people you haven’t. Go places. But more importantly: LEARN. Do an important service for yourself; Trust in full so you can attract just that.

I don’t care who you are and what wrongs you’ve committed. You are loved. Society convinced you to be completely individual. To be independent. We’re reminded that asking for help is the same in asking for charity. That isn’t true. While I advocate self-reliance. You’re going to need objective guidance. DO NOT RESTRICT YOUR DEPENDENCE. Embrace it. You need people to thrive. You need people to survive. You need people to thrive. You need people to survive. So…who are your people? The ones who love you & the ones that hurt you. Welcome love and welcome pain my friend.