RELATIONSHIPS
Alone, a Loan
A poem about being by myself
Solitude
is time I borrow
for and
against myself to
recharge
my introverted
batteries
and, reconnect with
my first
true love and
longest
life partner,
Me
Author’s Note: I’ve taken a page from Nia Simone McLeod’s chapter and am spending some time recharging and reconnecting with myself this weekend. I have unmistakably found myself showing telltale signs of stress and its good pal, burnout, was certainly creeping up behind it.
I need to remember this journey is a marathon — “sprinting” towards my career or life goals is only effective in short bursts and anything longer leads to “injuries”. In this case, they are dry mouth, sleeplessness, hair falling out, and other stress-induced injuries.
It is time to borrow some time in my finite number of days (i.e., take out a loan) to be alone. I know the returns will be profitable and lead to better outcomes when I reengage.
Thank you also to Lucy Dan 蛋小姐 (she/her/她) whose introversion prompt primed me to think about listening to what my body is saying.
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