avatarErie Astin

Summary

The author expresses a deep desire for travel, artistic pursuits, improved health, and a strong family connection, despite the challenges of disability and the acceptance of not having biological children.

Abstract

In response to a Dancing Elephants Press writing prompt, the author crafts a personal wish list that transcends material possessions. While appreciating the joy of creative expression through various art forms and the aspiration to become a novelist, the author's true longing lies in the realm of experiences and relationships. Overcoming the limitations of disability to reclaim the ability to travel, especially to Europe and across North America, is a central theme. The wish list also includes the hope for adoption and a close-knit family life, with a particular emphasis on the desire to share the love received from their parents with a child of their own. The author reflects on the importance of health and mobility, aiming to enjoy life with their parents and cherish every moment together without the shadow of future loss.

Opinions

  • The author values the ability to create and appreciate art, aspiring to master various forms of artistic expression.
  • There is a strong yearning for the freedom of travel and the experience of different cultures, with Europe being a significant point of interest.
  • Health and mobility are seen as crucial to the author's quality of life and ability to engage in desired activities.
  • The author has a deep emotional connection with their parents and places a high value on family bonds.
  • While the author has come to terms with not having biological children, there is a clear desire to adopt and provide a loving home to a preteen or teenager.
  • The author expresses a wish for a flexible lifestyle that allows for personal freedom and the pursuit of passions.
  • There is an underlying acknowledgment of the author's current limitations due to disability and a hopeful outlook on regaining health and mobility.

All I Want Is Travel, Art, Health, and Family

Response to DEP prompt 42 of 52: ‘Write a wish list’

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I am honored to write my first story for Dancing Elephants Press. My thoughts often tend toward darkness, so I’ve been searching for a way to turn my writing toward happiness and light. DEP prompts do just that.

Wish lists are tools to keep track of what you want. I want material things, sure, like a collection of musical instruments and a whole room to house them in. I’d also like:

  • a nice garden with great landscaping
  • more dogs and cats
  • a house decorated with art I have made, and with classical-style art, like replicas of ancient Greek and Roman sculptures and classical pillars.

But much more importantly, I want to move through the world like a normal person again. Nine years ago, I became disabled and now can hardly leave my house.

I want to be able to sit without a headrest, to sit and talk to people without my vision blurring and me losing comprehension of language. I’d like to walk for more than very short distances.

And oh, I’d like to run again

It would be so great to drive again and to have the freedom of solo driving for hours wherever I want to go. I love to travel, and I want to make travel a lifestyle.

Europe is my great love. Hitting every country there? Yes, please! All 50 U.S. states and most of Canada are also on my bucket list.

Traveling solo, traveling with my parents — both would be great. I also long to be closer to my cousin. Maybe we could travel together.

If I lived closer to a bigger town, perhaps I could make a few good friends of the same religious and political leaning as me. I’d love to have friends who feel like family, and we could travel together, too.

Art must always be part of my life

I want to:

  • learn to paint, sing, dance, and draw
  • become an expert photographer
  • write memoirs and poetry
  • make a living as a novelist

I’d like to have a flexible schedule so that I can structure my days how I please.

And the most important thing of all — family

For a while, I imagined I would marry and have a child. But at 38, I’ve come to accept that I’ll never have a baby of my own.

I know that women plenty older than me give birth, but I can’t function on one sleepless night, let alone years of them.

Rather, I’d like to adopt a preteen or teenager, once I regain my health and have the financial means. I’m an only child and desperately want to share the love that my parents gave me.

I want to work on regaining my health and mobility, retain those things to a ripe old age so that I don’t continue to struggle with health problems.

I hope that I’m always able to live with my parents. We have an astoundingly close bond and it would be heartbreaking to leave them.

Lastly, I want the ability to live in the moment, not worrying about my parents aging and dying. I don’t want to waste away our life together.

Thanks for reading! Vidya Sury, Collecting Smiles suggested this prompt: “Write a wish list and share it with us.”

I enjoyed Joyce Nielsen’s story about realizing she is a child of Nature:

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