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view the struggle as something which cannot exist, in them.</p><p id="886e">They are conviced that people can have and live with these struggles without peaying attentions or doing anything to it.</p><p id="3a74">But they, have to do anything to get rid of it. That’s how they view a struggle.</p><h2 id="0641">When they see people doing better:</h2><p id="d9b1">Jealousy can be the first sign. They are either jealous or not.</p><p id="16e7">But at the end of the day, they want to reach what you have, even if they have to fight their jealousy.</p><p id="d34e">They have to problem fighting and working hard, with no sleep.</p><p id="412d">They have to do it.</p><p id="2059">That’s the good thing which must be taken from them, as an advice and inspo.</p><p id="4665">Don’t listen to people telling you that perfectionists don’t look at other accomplishments and success, because they do, and they really want to become like them and even above them. But they are good at hiding it and good at protecting themsleves.</p><p id="31ce">We talked about struggle, they see it as distractor, not as an essential events and appearing and dissapearing in life.</p><p id="855a">When they do

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that, they are basically putting obstacles on the way of self-improvement and self-recognition. They are not allowing themselves to be aware of themeselves during hte struggle.</p><p id="49c8"><i>They just want to get rid of it the quickest way possible.</i></p><p id="09a1">I agree, they may have figured it out in their life, their career is going well and florishing. Since they were kids, good grades, keeping themselves healthy, they are just perfect in every area in life.</p><p id="cd1f">But most of them lack this self-awareness, becuase of their view on life. Their mindset is only working when it comes to success, status, material things.</p><p id="3fc6">Don’t you think this is going to shift their attention from building their true selves, discovering their true selves?</p><h2 id="0767">Conculsion:</h2><p id="3842">If you are one of them. Think about what values you. Becuase it’s definitely not what you do. It’s what you are, as a person, as a soul with a heart.</p><p id="34f2">Be yourself and allow yourself to not be perfect, becuase the truth is, you are not. How hard you try to be, you are not perfect.</p><p id="1cea">Thank you for reading!</p></article></body>

Advices For All My Perfectionists (Will Change Your Life)

Life-changing advices you have to hear if you strive to be perfect.

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Life doesn’t have to be percieved that hard.

You are making yourself a robot, stop.

What is perfectionism?

“Perfectionism is a trait that makes life an endless report card on accomplishments or looks. When healthy, it can be self-motivating and drive you to overcome adversity and achieve success. When unhealthy, it can be a fast and enduring track to unhappiness” phsycology today

What we understand from this is that, perfectionists who have a struggle in life, due to their “ unstability” are going to view life as difficult and leading to viewing themselves as valueless.

Perfectionsists will have the struggle with them. Thinking and working hard to solve it. They view the struggle as something which cannot exist, in them.

They are conviced that people can have and live with these struggles without peaying attentions or doing anything to it.

But they, have to do anything to get rid of it. That’s how they view a struggle.

When they see people doing better:

Jealousy can be the first sign. They are either jealous or not.

But at the end of the day, they want to reach what you have, even if they have to fight their jealousy.

They have to problem fighting and working hard, with no sleep.

They have to do it.

That’s the good thing which must be taken from them, as an advice and inspo.

Don’t listen to people telling you that perfectionists don’t look at other accomplishments and success, because they do, and they really want to become like them and even above them. But they are good at hiding it and good at protecting themsleves.

We talked about struggle, they see it as distractor, not as an essential events and appearing and dissapearing in life.

When they do that, they are basically putting obstacles on the way of self-improvement and self-recognition. They are not allowing themselves to be aware of themeselves during hte struggle.

They just want to get rid of it the quickest way possible.

I agree, they may have figured it out in their life, their career is going well and florishing. Since they were kids, good grades, keeping themselves healthy, they are just perfect in every area in life.

But most of them lack this self-awareness, becuase of their view on life. Their mindset is only working when it comes to success, status, material things.

Don’t you think this is going to shift their attention from building their true selves, discovering their true selves?

Conculsion:

If you are one of them. Think about what values you. Becuase it’s definitely not what you do. It’s what you are, as a person, as a soul with a heart.

Be yourself and allow yourself to not be perfect, becuase the truth is, you are not. How hard you try to be, you are not perfect.

Thank you for reading!

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