Accept Things In Life That Happened To Fly In Life
Accepting things in life is hard. It is one of the most difficult things to do in life.
It is also difficult to accept that you have to accept things in life that happened. Bad things and positive things. This means, that you have to give all the bad things that happened a place into your heart. It is difficult to do that, but you have to when you want to do a lot more things in life than you actually doing right now. You can do a lot more. You deserve that. Not only bad things but also good things. To see the perspective as well.
You have to fly in life. I mean, not literally, but you have to do good things in your life. You can do this. But therefore you have to accept things that happened in your life, the bad ones, and the good ones. Think about what kind of youth you had? How did your parents treat you? Did there happen inappropriate things in your life? Like abuse, beaten by your parents, you haven’t been accepted as who you are. You name it what that could be. But the thing is, you have to give it a spot in your heart, beat it that you can leave it behind and continue your life with what you want to do.
Sometimes it is hard to let it go. Actually, you can’t let it go. It will be forever with you, but you give it a spot in your hear. In a way, you can cope with and it gives you the strength to live the life you always wanted.
I know, I am in a phase right now where I have to accept things that happened in my life. It is difficult that I’m crying sometimes into sleep. Well, mostly, thinking about everything that happened in the past. Not only bad things but also good things. In bed, I’m imagining what I have done if I wasn’t bullied and if I wasn’t abused. But I can’t even imagine that I haven’t been through that stuff. So, I have to accept things have happened in my life, that I have to give a little bit of space from my heart. In a certain way, I have to cope with that.
There are ways how you can accept it or ways how you could cope with it. That is different for each individual. It also depends on what you have been through.
When someone asks you to clean up the dishes, you say you will, but only when you have finished what you were doing at the moment because that has a prior right now. After ten minutes that person asks you again to do it. But you’re not finished with what you’re doing, so you asked friendly if he/she can stop asking, because you will do it eventually, but when you are finished with what you’re doing at that moment. Then, again, she/he asks you again to do the dishes, but you told earlier that you will do the dishes after you have done what you have to do first. But then she/he says you will never do whenever is asked to do. But you’re the one who decides what, when, where, how you do things. Nobody decides for you when, where, how and what to do things. But do you have to accept this behavior? In this case, you don’t have to accept things.
This is inappropriate behavior. This behavior occurs a lot of time between the two of you. One thing you can do is accept he or she is like this, or ask if he/she wants to stop pushing you. It doesn’t have to be going into speed. Or in tempo from the other person.
Well, if these things have happened, or maybe even worse, you have to accept that it happened in your life, but you never may accept this behavior in the future.
You have learned your lessons. You know what to do in these kinds of situations.
Agnes Laurens is a writer. She writes for the local newspaper. Agnes lives in Bunnik, The Netherlands, with her husband and three daughters. Writing is — aside from playing the violin — one of her passions since childhood. She is on Twitter and Instagram.
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