A Special Meeting At The Beach, And How I Became Intrigued.
Say Something
There was an old man sitting on the shore of a beach, in the village where I spent my short holiday. He was looking around and waiting for people to get closer, and when someone approached him he started a conversation always using the same Italian words “L’acqua è calda”. The seawater is warm.
He used to speak to everybody, and if you walked by you could hear him repeat the same sentence again and again, like a mantra. I found it a weird behavior, but I soon realized that he got the most incredible reactions.
I replied to him “Not really”, and closed the conversation. How rude. Another woman said she was going out into the open sea, to find a current of cold water; a man spent one hour talking to him about climate change.
That old man was reinventing the wheel: he was using any old excuse to get in contact with people. The sea temperature is a very common subject on every beach, but you don’t have to speak about complicated issues to get attention, or to approach someone: you just need to get started. I guess he thought that repeating the same sentence was the easiest way, or maybe he was a famous psychologist analyzing some human behavior.
I was surprised to notice that there was always someone near him. I once approached them — walking slowly in the water because it was not really warm — and they were talking about politics. It was our beach social corner. Maybe it’s one of the basic laws of communication: just say something.
It made me think we should all share a little part of our life. Some people will not care, others will be suspicious like I was with that man. But just a few faithful followers are enough to create magic: they share energy and positive feelings. They connect.
I watched them from my little corner on the beach: they were laughing and enjoying the moment, while I was getting bored.
That man showed me that I should be more open to people I don’t know, and find joy in the funniest moments in life. We all expect a lot when we have important meetings in our life, and we are often disappointed. Yet some gifts are unexpected, and they are the ones we remember. I don’t know that man’s name, and I wonder if he is still making new friends at the beach, while I am writing about him.
We can all make a difference in other people’s lives, and we don’t need to be too smart or important for them: even a simple sentence can improve the world. Say it.
