A Simple Solution to Those Nerve-Wracking Noises
How you can harness the power of psychology to regain your calm
One of the most commonly expressed reasons for tension, particularly within the workplace, is that of unwanted noise. Noise can be a significant stressor in the environment and, unfortunately, there are many times that it cannot be avoided. So here is an active strategy that will pair noise with the response of relaxation.
I was first introduced to Noise Therapy while working for the United Nations in Haiti (2006). My department chief was a Senegalese psychiatrist who introduced me to this technique and I’ve used it periodically with clients who experience stress as a result of random noises in their working environment — you know what I mean, from the pencil tapping office-mate to loud machinery, our environments can be fraught with noises that are outside our control. While noise-canceling headphones might be an option, there’s a chance that those aren’t either desirable or allowed. If you find yourself stuck and frazzled, here’s the solution that might help.
The Science Behind This Exercise
Behavioral psychologist B.F. Skinner was first to document the role of elicited responses in relation to stimuli. This type of learning is called Classical Conditioning. For example, he found that after a period of time in which a bell was presented milliseconds before the presentation of food, dogs began salivating when only the bell was presented. The response was classically conditioned.
Stress as a reaction to noise can be viewed in the same way. For many of us, we have been presented with many instances of noise which generally accompanied things that were stressful (perhaps parental arguing, road construction which was delaying traffic…you can probably name more….). After a period of time, we have been classically conditioned to experience stress/tension when only the noise is presented, regardless of whether that noise is accompanied by an actual stressful event. I mean think about it, that pencil tapping never ACTUALLY hurt anyone, did it? The good news is that since it’s a learned response, it can also be UNLEARNED (or Extinguished if we are using B.F. Skinner terms).
How to Practice
- Find a place to sit comfortably. Choose a place that is not especially quiet to begin with, sitting at your desk at the office is a fine place to start in fact because there are always noises going on around us.
- Take a minute and mentally scan your body for tension then begin to become aware of your surroundings.
- With each noise that you are aware of, think “Relax.” When there are no sounds present, tell yourself mentally that “with each noise I hear, I will become more relaxed.”
- Practice daily, working up to a period of 5–10 minutes.






